El.Sonador
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just finished watching "Yes Man" starring Jim Carrey
and the first part of the movie reminded me of us people with SA ..
""a lonely man with low self-esteem, He avoids his friends. He has a boring job, and he spends his spare time watching DVDs, he says no to anything ...party invitation .. cinema ... hanging out .. he always says "No" and find excuses to tell people...""
but then he decides that he will say 'yes' for a whole year to any opportunity that present itself ..and his life gets a lot better
SO, I was thinking let's start saying 'yes' just for a month to anything ..not matter how hard it will be... let's just force ourselves to do it ... I'm not saying we go looking for places and social situation ..all I'm asking is when someone ask you to hang out or do something together or whatever just say 'yes' ...let's be 'yes men' and 'yes women'
I going to try it and see how it works...but only if someone will do it with me...
so who's with me ?
and the first part of the movie reminded me of us people with SA ..
""a lonely man with low self-esteem, He avoids his friends. He has a boring job, and he spends his spare time watching DVDs, he says no to anything ...party invitation .. cinema ... hanging out .. he always says "No" and find excuses to tell people...""
but then he decides that he will say 'yes' for a whole year to any opportunity that present itself ..and his life gets a lot better
SO, I was thinking let's start saying 'yes' just for a month to anything ..not matter how hard it will be... let's just force ourselves to do it ... I'm not saying we go looking for places and social situation ..all I'm asking is when someone ask you to hang out or do something together or whatever just say 'yes' ...let's be 'yes men' and 'yes women'
I going to try it and see how it works...but only if someone will do it with me...
so who's with me ?