Why people piss me off

[CosmicNeurotica]

Don't get me wrong. I'm a loving person. But when it comes to others ignorance, it really ticks me off. Let me explain.

First, I don't talk much. That's understandable right? I have low self esteem and social anxiety.
But here's my problem. Other people seem to think I'm an idiot. As if I don't know I have problems in my own life. If someone else says something about me still living at home, and that I'm lazy, I'm a hermit etc, they act like that's some sort of a big secret and oh no don't say that out loud.
Really? Give me a damn break. I know you talk about me. I know you think my life amounts to nothing. But does that mean I'm any less of a person than you?
Others think they're better than me because they "do" things. Because they don't have a problem being around other people, something must be wrong with me. They think I must be an idiot because I stay home all day and have no friends.
Sorry, but this really makes me want to smash peoples faces in and say respect me god damnit. I'm not the idiot, it's you who chooses to judge based on what someone does with their life and social quota and not character or intentions.
All I know is, I know why people commit mass murders and then kill themselves. All they want is to be acknowledged and for you to quit being an ignorant jack head.

That is all.

 

[guessed]

I agree 100% with everything you said. I feel the same way for the same reasons. It pisses me the hell off too. You're completely justified in how you feel about it.

 

[agoraphobickatie]

i feel you.. for the most part, people are ignorant, judgemental and insecure.. which makes them think, for some reason, they have a right to open their mouth and express what the fukk they think is right and wrong and what they think you should do about it...

fukk 'em i don't have any room for people like that in my life. and i don't value the opinions of ignorant people anyway.. they can think whatever they want, they don't mean anything to me so it's whatever.. if they want to hate on me, then i'll keep them on their top game by giving them full time employment.. i don't really give a sh!t

 

[KiaKaha]

Yeah, well I realized that a long time ago. Bitterness stems from being disrespected and being misunderstood. You know what? It doesnt matter, these people are fools...and if those people want to judge you simply because you are who you are then screw them... they dont know you, nor do they they have the insight to realize that there is more to you than meets the eye. You are angry...and you deserve to be.

 

[Ignace]

Yeah Totally !! Finally some one says it. Just go to hell piece of sh*t ! /end angry mode
Your last part about the murderers is totally true. They always laughed and talked about that person until he/she does something like that. And then the person was nuts for killing other people. Yeah, who made him/her you think ? Some one of my class says that too. Just go killing Ignace ! I just look him in the eyes like: I will .. you.

 

[guessed]

Bullying is like chinese water torture. One or two drops is nothing, but over time.. it'll drive you mad.

 

[misternobody]

ToolShuggah , wow, I haveta say I am a total mirror image of you and all you said .
I have it all the same way as you in each and every thing you said!

 

[spider04]

You need to show people who you really are and that you're not an idiot... they are judging you based on the little things they know about you.. and be nice to them even if they ain't to you

 

[DarkPhoenix]

It seems ignorance knows no bounds these days, people seem to be content to judge others lifestyles without knowing a thing about them.

 

[Richey]

stay away from people like that or try to not let them get to you which is easier said then done but really they don't have much empathy and they like to follow the crowd, they want to feel that they fit in and have succeeded in life and anyone who is different is seen as a failure in their eyes. its condescending and arrogant on their behalf. the best kinds of people will see that maybe others arn't at their stage and so they'll positively help out instead of being critical and useless.

difficult to chew but this is what some people are like ..try and stear clear of them.

 

[guessed]

what do you do when the people like that are your own parents and you can't get away?

 

[Richey]

It seems ignorance knows no bounds these days, people seem to be content to judge others lifestyles without knowing a thing about them.

people love to gossip in sadistic forms by mentioning other people who they think isn't on their level, the gossip is then agreed to by their peers and then people form an idea or a judgement of others in really rude ways ...

it happens at work environments alot especially with women talking down other women but also men as well.

 

[Richey]

what do you do when the people like that are your own parents and you can't get away?

well if you can i'd try and move out as soon as possible, or sit them down and discuss that you arn't happy with their judgements.

 

[RossMc]

A lot of people will never understand you, no matter what you do. Som e people are just that way. The key thing is to try to get out more and do more things and not focus as much on what other people think about you. Of course, that's easier said than done.

 

[Iseesky]

I dunno...I find the people that judge you so harshly are the ones who've been through that. They've been judged at one point and it changed them for the worse and when offered a chance to judge someone else they aren't going to let it pass them by. It makes them feel powerful. Like a school bully. Most are needy and emotional because their parents ignore them or they're abused. Bullying others gives them the power and strength they don't otherwise have.

It makes me feel better to empathize with them. Happy people don't make fun of others. Happy people don't negatively judge others on how many friends they have or how quiet they are. They're probably more lonely and unhappy than any of us here.