slicknsly
Well-known member
I have had this happen on a few occasions. It seems to happen when I go to school at a point in time through the year when everyone in the class begins to socialize, but I stay quiet (math class more so because I need to concentrate most), I can not concentrate when other talk to me and dont work well in groups. When they hear me talk over the phone or in person one on one outside of class or other places they have no problems. I dont talk with a lisp or anything like that. I know they think this because later in the year I over hear girls say stuff amongst themselves like is he gay? Now no dude has ever said faggot to my face or anything like that, but if they did I would slug em in the face. When I over hear girls saying stuff like this and giggling it gets me really anxious because it seems all the attention is on me and its bad attention. I have a girlfriend (1 year now), and dont want to go through the anxious feelings of trying to flirt with girls since it would only end up in unloyalty, and I dont talk with too many dudes cause I lack social skills besides sports talk.......So I am asking you,
1) Do I plain out look like a gay guy or what?
2) How do I overcome this?(I think meds to become sociable in large groups, even though I have no insurance at this point).
3) Have you had any past experiences like this?
Finally, when this problem it comes up kills me, and makes me want to hurt someone.
-DISCLAIMER. Though it may seem I make out being gay a bad thing, I have no problems against that lifestyle. People can do what they want.
1) Do I plain out look like a gay guy or what?
2) How do I overcome this?(I think meds to become sociable in large groups, even though I have no insurance at this point).
3) Have you had any past experiences like this?
Finally, when this problem it comes up kills me, and makes me want to hurt someone.
-DISCLAIMER. Though it may seem I make out being gay a bad thing, I have no problems against that lifestyle. People can do what they want.