because we are not entitled to anything in life..we must want it,work for it and not expect it all at once just because 'we' want it.that is NOT how life works.anyone who thinks that to be the case will se setting themself up for HUGE dissapontments..it may sound blunt,but it's the truth at least..far too many people want it ALL,they want it NOW and they want it given..this is how entitlement society works,but NOT real life.sometimes a person must ask themself what they are willing to give up to get what they really want.,,sometimes life is a matter of choice and setting priorities.