the term "spoiled" is subjective.
while one person may think they are being treated like crap, another person may think they are living the good life. there are a lot of clearly spoiled people in the world who would never admit to being spoiled- whether they are liars or whether they simply don't have a clear perspective.
also, people can be spoiled in different ways. some people may have been spoiled financially but emotionally neglected by their parents- or vice versa.
it is hard to say.