When people stop texting/messaging you...

[ciel20]

I feel this way almost all the time, it is really annoying because i know it is usually an irrational thought that they arent responding because i said something that made me seem like a loser and led them to not want to talk to me anymore.

Lol, I agree with this... for example, two days ago I messaged a guy asking for a favour and he hasn't replied (although I made it open-ended) - I thought he liked me, so I'm surprised/disappointed, and keep wondering if something was wrong with my text (but having looked over it, it seems fine..). I've given up now. I hate being ignored via text..

In general, except for a few people, I don't really like texting, for the same reason as above (feeling that I've said something stupid)... I'm always glad when the conversation is over.

 

[sullyS1985]

ya ciel20, i am glad when the conversation is over and will usually try and rush it so i dont feel akward but sometimes when it is a girl i really like i wish it was a longer convo....it is a really weird habit and very frustrating for me

 

[206Raider]

yeah it's the worse when somebody just completely ignores your text all together. But I also hate texting for a long conversation too I just look forward to it ending on a good note. I'm like that in real life also like one time I got on the bus from my college and some really pretty girl out of nowhere started talking to me, she seemed really interested and we talked for awhile but I started getting anxiety like if I keep up this conversation I will embarress myself eventually or run out of things to say with akward silence and got off before my stop and said bye and all that.

I promised myself I will never do that again becuase I'm tired of running from things that I want soo bad.

 

[dream]

I used to think it was rude when im talking to someone on msn and they log off with out saying bye im not a fan of text messaging so that dosen't bother me.