When people look at you...

Nack

Banned
Walking down the street, and someone walk by staring at you, with their big wide eyes, or just in classroms when other students look at you. What does that makes you feel?

Personaly, sometime i get paranoid, because when they look at you. They dont have any kind of facial expression, only a blank look. I get the feeling they think im weird, and then my imagination go wild, and i end up depress. But, when a asian girl looks at me, i get the feeling they think im handsome, (wishful thinking??). But, from everyone else, they scare the crap outta me.
 

JonnyD

Well-known member
i think somebody has a weak for asians :p, no shame on it i have too...

generally when people look at me i don't notice how theyre looking because it makesme totally embarassed right away, i look down and try to go away asap!
 

Richey

Well-known member
when that happens and the other person doesn't react or simle or say something and they just keep looking i automatically believe they've seen the devil or something along those lines

if they look away quick then its nothing at all

one time this girl at the restaurant i worked at used to screw up her nose at you if your eyes crossed paths at all with a stare ..not sure if she even realised that's what she was doing and she may not have been thinking bad thoughts but that's the impression it gave me

normally i just look away after 2 seconds
 

silentworld

Member
when i was younger i used to make angry faces, cause i hate being watched, recently i get paranoid or i just look everywhere with this delirant look
 

Hylke

Well-known member
Whenever someone looks at me, laughs or whispers near me I get the feeling that they are laughing/whispering about me or staring at me. When someone smiles while looking at me I think that it is because they feel sorry for me.

Oh and Asians are indeed, by definition,hot!:p
 

Secret

Member
When people look at me I just feel nervous unless I'm comfortable with them... but if it's people passing me on the street I feel quite nervous and really just want to run away like... going at the city street! God it's not nice!...or when I can see a person which I don't know rather well from a distance that I'm going to pass by I really just want to run away but of course I don't! ha ha! That would just be SO weird!xD... and I just want to keep my eyes anywhere ells then on them (like ignoring them), but to seem normal and relaxed and not weird you have to give people a fast glance and a little smile now and then... but my gaze really flickers and I hope now one notice... my heart just sits in my throwt;P ha ha... really weird... and if it's a large bunch of people IT'S REALLY BAD... My breath sort of like...I think it's called hyperventilate?? I dunno!xD ha ha... It's like going to an exame... ha haxD WEIRD!...

And it's not so nice to sit in the cantine with all those eyes everywhere, but normally it's okay because I got my...mates and friends there;P... but now and then I just have to go to the toilet you know xD...

I think that eyecontact with fellowstudents, that I've talked to often, feel comfortabel around is okay...unless that I think they know something about me, which I find embarresing (I can be really paranoid sometimes and think about if they can see that I'm nervous, see what I'm thinking or if or that they think I'm weird, stupid or you know! ha haxD) or if I feel they don't like me or that they are mad at me... I have a little diffeculty mostly, when to look boys in the eyes but I "just" force myself to do it...cause I really want to be like normal!... christ;P

It's really so stupid to have that tendency to look at the ground or just away even though you just don't wanna do it!;P And being so nervous for nothing...

Usually I just trie to put a huge smile or a little discret smile on (not so that it look fake;P then the whole point would be ruined;D) for to quickly move my gaze ellswhere afterwards... and I have to force myself to look at people and it's hard and I'm just thinking that in a moment this will be overwith and you will be reaching your headpoint in 2 sek;P.
 

butterflydreams

Active member
When people look at me, I just look away. I have a hard time keeping eye-contact with others. I get all nervous for some reason... not in a bashful way either. But, because I feel judged down and under a microscope. I shouldn't care about what the world may think of me, so I guess it all comes down to me and how much I can love and accept myself....
 

zlench

Well-known member
I try to avoid eye contact as much as possible. I feel is I look back that they make think that I'm staring at me/
 

pufferfish

Active member
i get really uncomfortable when people look at me. i feel like they are zooming in on my faults... my fat spots and my skin. i'm really paranoid. i hate when people look into my eyes.. ee.
 

Flowers-Of-Bloom

Well-known member
I generally don't look to see if others are staring at me, but they probably are. My mother once told me I get a lot of looks from just walking through the shopping centre. This is because of my fashion sense, so I can responsibility for it. But I honestly hate being stared at, even being used to it.
 

NothingElseMatters

Well-known member
Most of the time i will stare back with an angry look but inside me i feel a bit scared and i try to figure out why they would stare at me.Probably is because i look at them too and i have this angry look on my face!I think this situation would be normal if SA wasn't involved.What's wrong with people looking at each other in the street
 
I don't know where to put my eyes. I very nervous when people are looking at me, especially in my eyes. Starting to do some strange moves...
 

doesit

Well-known member
i remember back at school somehow i ended looking at this african girl for few minutes,when she saw me she started looking at me with rage or anger,because id say my face expression was rude or angry at the moment,so all the situation made me laugh and i smiled to her and she smiled back :D
 

mikestar

Banned
It makes me VERY angry...I even get it when im back @ the house,cars driving past and eyes gazing in through the window...jeez cant you lot get a life,cant have fkin peace anywere nowadays!

Worst 4 me is when walking and someone drives past staring and chuckling. Ill be depressed and anxious for days wondering what where they laughing at.

I have snapped a few times when being stared at and lets just say they turned there head away quite quick :)...They will get middle finger salute or a mouthfull
 

mndigi

Well-known member
I hate it, hate it, hate it when people stare at me. Even right now I am feeling reluctant to go out of the house which I must because people stare at me.
 

neko

Well-known member
Sometimes I feel like people look at me like I was really odd or something. I HATE it.
 
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