does it mean I'm just strange to them?
It means they see you as intimidating and somewhat sinister.
I guess... it might be because I showed some insecurity or I didn't do it quickly enough. But hey I don't think all girls should be so judgmental.
Like... it probably would've seemed more natural if I would've said hello when we first made eye contact, or I didn't make her feel nervous (hey sometimes I can seem involuntarily nervous, and why do people always have to reflect whatever you give off?) Instead it kinda seemed like I had to think about it before saying hello. or I needed to be louder? I dont know. I dont usually like to be TOO loud because people like to not say anything back. hell I dont say anything at all most of the time because people won't say hi back.
I'd say it's bait. (maybe for a laugh) I'm assuming the person would need to be a bit of a smartass to respond with something their mother supposedly told them.
nah she wasn't trying to be funny or make a joke she seriously wanted me to gtf away. she was being really loud and making me look like an idiot... and I was just sorta laughing it off and not taking it too seriously but I had to respect her and left and told her it's nothing personal. again she just said "I DONT CARE JUST GET AWAY FROM ME!!!"
it all started with just a simple hey, as I was sitting next to her waiting for the train. she didn't answer and just looked very serious. so then I said "do you like it when people randomly say hi to you?"
she said "no". I was like "oh... people always say that in other countries it's different. people say hi to each other and are more friendly"
then she said "not over here in downtown miami" and she said it really loudly and like in a way that would make it seem like she wanted me to feel stupid.
so I said "ok ok..."
about 5 seconds later I asked "could I ask you a question?" she said "no I don't want to talk to you." but then I just continued and asked her "do I ahve to just appear more confident?"
she said "no I just dont talk to strangers." I said "ok.. so it's like that then". Some girls around me just started to laugh, and I commented and said "well I'm a stranger. I'm strange. Girls seem wicked when you're a stranger. Girls seem wicked when you're strange"...
I waved at them and said "good bye".
Then I walked past them again and I felt like I just wantd to tell the girl 'hey it's nothing personal ok"
and she pretty much shouted "JUST LEAVE ME ALONE AND GET THE HELL AWAY FROM ME!"
I was just like "damn ok, I was doing that anyway, peace"
maybe it just seemed like I was patronizing her there.
I dont know why I have to come off as so intimidating... I try not to be. I have been getting nervous and involuntarily so it seems as well. people think it's so easy. It's become like second nature to feel this way, and act this way (ie timid, anxious, nervous, etc.)
Damn crazy world we live in where people can't even warm up to each other. Instead we have the concept of "strangers" etc. and SA.
That girl just seems stupid. If someone says "I don't talk to stranger" then you should probably just stop talking to them. I don't know who says that anyways. I don't think most people say that, and it probably isn't going to happen that often. There are A LOT of weird people in this world, and to meet the good ones you are going to have to get through some of the annoying ones too. Just keep it up, and you'll find someone better. I think you actually did pretty well overall. If someone was talking to me like that I would never react like that, I would just be really really scared, but I would still try to reply best I could.
Did you mean "Women seem wicked when you're unwanted"?