Rainbowstar
Active member
Hi everyone,
I am a modest and sometimes unconfident person. These are characteristics of my personality. One unhelpful habit I've developed since my childhood is when I chat with someone I struggle or feel uncomfortable talking about myself. I am uncomfortable because I don't have a high enough esteem and worry about what the other person is thinking about me if I say something which is uninteresting. As a consequence of this, in a conversation most of the time I am a listener and I chat with someone by continually asking the person questions about them. The conversation becomes completely one way. I have noticed that many people talk about themselves in a conversation, whereas I do completely the opposite. Have any of you had similar experiences? I am determined to change the unfair one sidedness of my conversations. I don't want to always play to role of listener anymore.
I am a modest and sometimes unconfident person. These are characteristics of my personality. One unhelpful habit I've developed since my childhood is when I chat with someone I struggle or feel uncomfortable talking about myself. I am uncomfortable because I don't have a high enough esteem and worry about what the other person is thinking about me if I say something which is uninteresting. As a consequence of this, in a conversation most of the time I am a listener and I chat with someone by continually asking the person questions about them. The conversation becomes completely one way. I have noticed that many people talk about themselves in a conversation, whereas I do completely the opposite. Have any of you had similar experiences? I am determined to change the unfair one sidedness of my conversations. I don't want to always play to role of listener anymore.