decadeOfSA
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Is that a sign she likes you or just can't stand you? This has happened at school(college) with a few women that I like and I feel that they might like me. One of them doesn't talk much to anyone in class(except her friend that sits next to her), but sometimes when I ask a question in class, she looks back directly at me(in my eyes) and tries to answer my question, without smiling though
. Acutally one day in class it started raining and some people left the class. I was wondering why and asked why everyone is leaving. She came right up in front of me and looked me in the eyes and told me that they left their windows down. She didn't smile or anything, but I thought it was interesting that she did this looking me straight in the eyes right in front of my desk. Then on certain occasions, I run in to her in the hall and she doesn't smile(actually she has never smiled at me - she kind of did once when passing in the hall and she was looking down, it was like one side of her lip was smiling) but she "quickly" looks away(usually just straight down). She used to sit next to me and then for some reason she moved seats. The class has ended and towards the end of class she just seemed to avoid coming anywhere near me or saying anything to me anymore. A similar thing has happened with several other women I have been interested in. I'm wondering if it's a good sign and she is just shy or what? I am too shy(anxious) to ever make any moves and I feel like I have missed some opportunities by not making conversation. I want a relationship, even though it would be hard with SA, though it maybe good therapy. I don't even care how long it lasts if it gets me started gaining confidence with women and other people. I find it hard to smile and I look mad a lot and so I wonder if I scare off these women.
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