what's your "security blanket" ?
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lyricalliaisons
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I don't have any friends.
For me, my security blanket is my mind... my imagination.. & my writing.
For me, my security blanket is my mind... my imagination.. & my writing.
freestylemonster
Banned
for me it's friends. I thrive on social interaction it's what makes me happy. I get depressed whenever I'm alone. Buuuuuut just like you, friends are pretty rare for me haha.
It's weird having social phobia when the only thing that makes you truly happy is...socializing lol
It's weird having social phobia when the only thing that makes you truly happy is...socializing lol
bitingthepea
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yeah that is true
Mine is my friends aswel but only certain ones and not too many of them
and my ipod and phone fdor when im in public
Mine is my friends aswel but only certain ones and not too many of them
and my ipod and phone fdor when im in public
getbornagain
Well-known member
NFL football.
sleepysparrow
Well-known member
I wish I had one.
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Quick_Cutterz
Member
Listening to gangsta rap always helps to take away the social phobia stress. Stuff gets me PUMPED
Anthony_Afterwit
Member
Riiya said:
Sarcasm??
KevRoberts
New member
Booze
Alcohol would have to top the chart for me. This is my first post btw after stumbling upon "Avoidant personality disorder" on the net. I have all the symptoms, but if Im drunk its a complete reverse 180. It's difficult because i'm actually a solicaly savvy funny guy (I honestly don't mean to boast). It's something i somewhat struggle with, i'm not an alcoholic but over the past year have pretty much cut the habit (i used to drink ALOT) but have realized how sadly important it is for my social life. I have a number of close friends, who all seem hold me in higher regards then everybody else, but that's as far as i go, meanwhile they can handle new social interaction with little trouble. Lately I have gotten a lot better though, realizing the important to socialize with as many people i can (which still is very little, but am slowly getting better at it). I think it kinda shocks people (who i see everyday and dont talk to) when they see me as the center of attention making everybody laugh (drunk of course) . Ive been asked before under these situations:
"Why don't you talk more often?"
"Just shy i guess...."
Alcohol would have to top the chart for me. This is my first post btw after stumbling upon "Avoidant personality disorder" on the net. I have all the symptoms, but if Im drunk its a complete reverse 180. It's difficult because i'm actually a solicaly savvy funny guy (I honestly don't mean to boast). It's something i somewhat struggle with, i'm not an alcoholic but over the past year have pretty much cut the habit (i used to drink ALOT) but have realized how sadly important it is for my social life. I have a number of close friends, who all seem hold me in higher regards then everybody else, but that's as far as i go, meanwhile they can handle new social interaction with little trouble. Lately I have gotten a lot better though, realizing the important to socialize with as many people i can (which still is very little, but am slowly getting better at it). I think it kinda shocks people (who i see everyday and dont talk to) when they see me as the center of attention making everybody laugh (drunk of course) . Ive been asked before under these situations:
"Why don't you talk more often?"
"Just shy i guess...."
KevRoberts
New member
PS
btw i dont encourage alcohol as anybodys quick fix. Although it does help, I do realize that I am who I am, with or without alcohol (kinda : P) the trick is finding out the secret (overall, pretty much self confidence, and a somewhat 'fuck it' attitude). But until i get the full hang of it, i'll endulge every now and then (Do I use parenthesis to much? I think so...)
btw i dont encourage alcohol as anybodys quick fix. Although it does help, I do realize that I am who I am, with or without alcohol (kinda : P) the trick is finding out the secret (overall, pretty much self confidence, and a somewhat 'fuck it' attitude). But until i get the full hang of it, i'll endulge every now and then (Do I use parenthesis to much? I think so...)
fearlessvenom
Well-known member
cant go outside of my house without my ipod
Danfalc
Banned
My flat!.. just having like my own place where i can hide away when i need to helps so much.My puter.. without that id be lost as ive recently realised the hard way.And booze is always good if i need to pretend i have any social skills for a night.
Erm.. music mainly rap,working out and even cleaning the flat,anything to distract me from boredom.
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Erm.. music mainly rap,working out and even cleaning the flat,anything to distract me from boredom.
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