misslilyc
Active member
I've known this guy for almost 4 years now. We met on a dating site. we didn't talk very often but when we did we always had fun. he's very funny, self-assured, intelligent, kind and honest - I have no doubts about his honesty.
But over a month ago - at the end of Sept. (after 7 months of complete silence) he text me and we just started to talk again. I felt very comfortable talking to him, I dare say -happy. So we just talked - at first it was typical - just as we used to talk many times before. But something changed - and then we talked everyday at least for 2 hours on MSN or Skype, and he behaved towards me as if he fell in love.. (and it was like this for over 2 weeks).
Finally we met 2 times - during and after the first meeting he was (let's say) "in love"... he was very interested in what I were up to and kept texting me about what he was doing, etc... The second meeting was also cool but after that he changed - we still talk on MSN and Skype but not so much and not so often. I know he's working very very hard these days (about 12 -14 hours a day 6 days a week). But it's been a month now. I've invited him for a dinner, but he turned it down - later on (only after I told him it was unkind of him to do so this way he did) he said he regretted he couldn't come but didn't say sorry and after 3 weeks he didn't make anything to fix it.
He was still flirting with me. Sometimes he treated me like a good friend, sometimes like somebody more than a friend.
Last Sunday we were about to meet at my place (I didn't invited him that again this straightforward but it just came out of some jokes during a chat) but he cancelled it again (he had a headache). On Monday I asked him how was he feeling and we talked for a while. But he doesn't text me or anything ever since.
I've tried to talk to him 2 times what's going on. But he just says he's very tired.
So tell me guys what do you think of this? What's wrong with him? Is he just undecided or what?? Should I give up on him?
But over a month ago - at the end of Sept. (after 7 months of complete silence) he text me and we just started to talk again. I felt very comfortable talking to him, I dare say -happy. So we just talked - at first it was typical - just as we used to talk many times before. But something changed - and then we talked everyday at least for 2 hours on MSN or Skype, and he behaved towards me as if he fell in love.. (and it was like this for over 2 weeks).
Finally we met 2 times - during and after the first meeting he was (let's say) "in love"... he was very interested in what I were up to and kept texting me about what he was doing, etc... The second meeting was also cool but after that he changed - we still talk on MSN and Skype but not so much and not so often. I know he's working very very hard these days (about 12 -14 hours a day 6 days a week). But it's been a month now. I've invited him for a dinner, but he turned it down - later on (only after I told him it was unkind of him to do so this way he did) he said he regretted he couldn't come but didn't say sorry and after 3 weeks he didn't make anything to fix it.
He was still flirting with me. Sometimes he treated me like a good friend, sometimes like somebody more than a friend.
Last Sunday we were about to meet at my place (I didn't invited him that again this straightforward but it just came out of some jokes during a chat) but he cancelled it again (he had a headache). On Monday I asked him how was he feeling and we talked for a while. But he doesn't text me or anything ever since.
I've tried to talk to him 2 times what's going on. But he just says he's very tired.
So tell me guys what do you think of this? What's wrong with him? Is he just undecided or what?? Should I give up on him?
