Edith
Well-known member
I'm making changes.
Every month I want my life to be slightly better than the last.
I've done this for a year now. I make a goal for something that i want to accomplish by the end of the month... and then i do it. It sounds a bit silly... a bit too easy even... but really, it can be hard, but its helped an awful lot.
Over the past year I have grown so much, done so many things that I never thought i would do and made some amazing lifelong friends.
Last year my first goal was:
January: "Say yes to at least one invitation."
It took me a bit of courage to actually do it... but when i did it felt amazing!! even though it was an awkward hangout with some co-workers, it felt so good to accomplish that... so i modified January to "Say yes to at least FIVE invitations"... and i did that too!
So every month i did something small... and then something bigger and bigger and bigger... sometimes i did stupid things... and made mistakes, I cried and had some terrible lonely nights... but i wouldn't change a thing!
This past year has been the best of my life, and i will never be the same person again... i have confidence and happiness that i never thought i would have.... I'm actually content, my mind still races from time to time and i still have shyness and anxiety, but i can manage it now. It feels good to know that this can get better.... i really never thought it could.
Based on the success of last year I am continuing my "12 Goal Year"... so far January is going well...
January: "Say "no" even when its hard"
February: "Have a party with old friends..."
What goal would you make for February?
Every month I want my life to be slightly better than the last.
I've done this for a year now. I make a goal for something that i want to accomplish by the end of the month... and then i do it. It sounds a bit silly... a bit too easy even... but really, it can be hard, but its helped an awful lot.
Over the past year I have grown so much, done so many things that I never thought i would do and made some amazing lifelong friends.
Last year my first goal was:
January: "Say yes to at least one invitation."
It took me a bit of courage to actually do it... but when i did it felt amazing!! even though it was an awkward hangout with some co-workers, it felt so good to accomplish that... so i modified January to "Say yes to at least FIVE invitations"... and i did that too!
So every month i did something small... and then something bigger and bigger and bigger... sometimes i did stupid things... and made mistakes, I cried and had some terrible lonely nights... but i wouldn't change a thing!
This past year has been the best of my life, and i will never be the same person again... i have confidence and happiness that i never thought i would have.... I'm actually content, my mind still races from time to time and i still have shyness and anxiety, but i can manage it now. It feels good to know that this can get better.... i really never thought it could.
Based on the success of last year I am continuing my "12 Goal Year"... so far January is going well...
January: "Say "no" even when its hard"
February: "Have a party with old friends..."
What goal would you make for February?