black-wings
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Obviously everyone here joined in order to share ideas on how to cure S.A. But I'm curious as to what other methods you guys are taking toward getting rid of social phobia?
I don't really think you can cure SA because I don't really think there is anything really wrong with any of us.
Obviously everyone here joined in order to share ideas on how to cure S.A. But I'm curious as to what other methods you guys are taking toward getting rid of social phobia?
I didn't join this site to share ideas on how to cure SA. I don't think it can be cured. It can be managed, though. The only people who say they are cured are people who had it very mildly to begin with, or maybe just had it confused with shyness & once their shyness went away or got better, they considered themselves cured of SA, when actually they never had it to begin with. I'm sure I'm not the only person who didn't join this site looking for a cure. That's not what this site's about. It's for people with SA to meet others with SA & realize that they're alone by relating to one another's experiences.
I'd recommend that you don't medicate yourself with alcohol. I did in my teens, and it didn't help me much. In the end, the anxiety was even worse than it was in the first place!
Alcohol may get your foot inside the door, but from there, it all relies on your social skills.
Alcohol removes the anxiety for awhile ... It may not be the best way to go but your options aren't that good either ... but i am reflecting about it ...
From your posts your obviously a smart person and I hope you don't take offence or consider me condescending trying to give you advice.
But I self medicated with different substances..and even medication from doctors, and in my experience,anything you use to self medicate is only a short term crutch,and will likely just cause more problems in the long term.After self medicated,I found my anxiety rose in situations more and I needed to self medicate more ect
I hope you do reflect on it,because it sounds like your taking a lot of other really positive steps.