arsenalwa
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Physical exhaustion.
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This too. Makes me not give a damn about anything happening around me really.
Physical exhaustion.
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Knowing that I am decently dressed makes me more confident.
Lack of sleep ( very strange )
Keeping my mind busy/distracted (reading a book helps)
Rational affirmations
Listening to music through headphones
Wearing sunglasses
Alcohol
This is also helpful. However I tend to become more anxious if I'm dressed up, elegant or am wearing high heels. I have to be dressed decent (I had a nightmare the other night that I walked out in my husband's PT sweats lol), but also be able to blend in. When I do dress up it's for me so I endure the stares and attention because once I get past that, I feel comfortable.
Knowing that I am decently dressed makes me more confident.
I know that many of us never feel truly comfortable when in a social situation, but let's try to pinpoint what kind of things help reduce it from the worst time ever, to not quite the worst time ever
For me:
-Being with people I have known for many years.
-A social situation of only 4-6 people (one on one is too much anxiety, as well as large groups).
-A situation where there is a specific topic being discussed, versus trying to engage in small talk.
-A situation where there is an activity (like a boardgame or art project) rather than just conversation.
What about you?