Toomuchfear
Well-known member
Hey I have a question. What makes someone popular, what makes other people want to be around them? What qualities is it that makes a person desirable, wanted and loved?
For example, my friend has been travelling for a year, and now she's back, everyone is so excited, and are rushing to see her and tell her they've missed her. Now if I've been away, no one would miss me or go crazy over the fact I'm imminently returning. It's the same with other friends as well, they're always surrounded by people who are smiling and having fun with this person.
I rack my brain trying to think how come these people are so liked by others. My mother always told me that in order to be popular, I should emulate their behaviour, but it didnt work.
I always try to be happy and smiley and chatty to everyone I meet at work, but every day that goes by I'm alone. I was eating chicken bites today, and a colleague said that they put all sorts of horrible things in them, so I joked that he should have told me before I ate them and I laughed, but he just ignored me. Everything I say I do seems to be met with silence or a 'Oh right' response.
For example, my friend has been travelling for a year, and now she's back, everyone is so excited, and are rushing to see her and tell her they've missed her. Now if I've been away, no one would miss me or go crazy over the fact I'm imminently returning. It's the same with other friends as well, they're always surrounded by people who are smiling and having fun with this person.
I rack my brain trying to think how come these people are so liked by others. My mother always told me that in order to be popular, I should emulate their behaviour, but it didnt work.
I always try to be happy and smiley and chatty to everyone I meet at work, but every day that goes by I'm alone. I was eating chicken bites today, and a colleague said that they put all sorts of horrible things in them, so I joked that he should have told me before I ate them and I laughed, but he just ignored me. Everything I say I do seems to be met with silence or a 'Oh right' response.