What do you do when " poeple" talk about you?

DeMarco

DeMarco

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When im with my 2 best friends they brings other people if we go out. The thing is that i have heard these people talk about me. Things like : he's weird, he doesn't talk much hes quiet etc.............they don't think i hear them but i do. I have confronted some of them in the past but with no result. Most of the time they deny it. I don't know what to do. Of course i can ignored them but i see them when im with my friends. So what can i do? Same thing at work .......... It gets to me. :confused:
 
G

guessed

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It happens to me too, and it's so annoying.

It's good you confronted your friends but they don't seem to get it.

The only thing you can really do is either ignore it, or change friends.
 
Hannes

Hannes

Active member
When others are talking about you, it often means they don't understand you. In my opinion, if you are going to be around these people quite often, when you next hear them talking about you, interupt them and explain your condition as best you can, then they will understand better and have nothing more to talk about.

Hope this helps.
 
mummylala

mummylala

Well-known member
My other half and i use the saying "if they are talking about us then they are leaving someone else alone" .... I dont really worry about people talking about me as much as i used to because the people that are doing the talking are either doing it because they are jealous of something, have nothing better to do with their time or are just down right ignorant..

And more than often these kind of people have no right to be talking about anyone, when they are far from perfect themselves :)
 
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