Things i miss!

The exact same things as you...

I miss the relationship more than anything. My last relationship was over two years ago now, and it was long term. It didn't end very well and I haven't even been slightly romantically active since then. It really sucks that I can't go out and meet anyone new.

But yes, I miss the knowing someone wants you. Right now I could really use that :p. Unfortunately I don't think anything but random circumstance will throw me into another relationship, I'm too much of a coward to take any initiative on my own.
 

slimjim119

Well-known member
Being in a relationship is the thing I miss the most to. It gets lonely and depressing as hell sometimes. Especially with the holidays coming. New Years Eve is always a reminder how there are happy couples going out and having a blast. Even though I'm not so keen on going out, it would be nice to have a girlfriend to do things with.
 

michael122

Active member
I miss having friends and I just miss the person I used to be I'm to sad now. A few years ago I was a happy person. I've never had a real relationship so I can't miss that but it would be nice if someone out there were in love with me and thinking about me as much as I would love them and be thinking about them.
 
Well there really isn't much I miss, because I've pretty much never really had or enjoyed anything my whole life. This isn't something that happened after a certain time, it's been always and forever. It's just always always been this strange awkwardness and it's never gone away. Maybe I miss having a friend, the only friend I've ever had in my life. I'm not sure what's worse though, having some enjoyable things before your problems, or always having problems. These things people are listing are things I want to happen, and hoppefully won't miss in the future :D.
 
Going to live music! Used to go to so many gigs, and i'd always be right up the front row squashed onto the stage, and had so much fun.
Couldn't even consider doing that now.
And i miss friends too of course.

This is a depressing thread :lol:
 

JonnyD

Well-known member
Ditto Psych!

i've never done many things in my life, and generally i did things with a great deal of shame. i don't have much to miss.

i think i have some things to miss, but i can't really remember,in someway, i miss not missing...

it's strange because i live a pretty normal life, but it's hard to recall when i did something to miss, i think it's pretty pathetic , i'm not living i'm surviving.
 

RanjinSingh

Active member
I miss being able to use casual racism in conversations without being accused of bigotry by any bloody PC Brigade.

It used to be fine to say "I'm going down the Paki shop for 20 fags and a Sport" or "Shall we have a Chinky for tea tonight?". Say that now, and it's like your Hitler or Saddam Hussein or some mad fella.

I know it's a cliche, but things were much simpler back in the day.
 

Moonie

Well-known member
I miss....

My creativity. I was pretty creative in elementary - HS. But, I just let it go when I got into college. Too damned worry about getting good grades and other stupid stuff.

My hope/optimism. I used to be very hopeful when I was younger that I could become who I wanted to be. But, sometime during the end of college, I realized that things could only get worse now.

The first year of my relationship with my first love. We have known each other for about 4 years now. We aren't together anymore (well...not completely) but I sometimes reminisce about the fun we had during the first year together. It was sweet, innocent, and new. We trusted each other. We were faithful to each other. Cared about each other. Didn't hurt each other.

Having a girl friend. I haven't had one in so many years, that I forget what it's like to have a girl friend. It'd be nice to not have to worry that this friend was only using me for alternate motives.

Being in school. I hate the stress and monotomy of work. I like not having to worry about bills.

Babysitting. I miss babysitting my cousins when they were young. They were so fun and innocent. I miss them actually looking up to me - even though I am really just a freak. Now they are old enough to watch themselves, and surely are starting to get tainted by the world, too.
 

recluse

Well-known member
Well it's different if you aquired social phobia at a later stage, what happens when you have had it all your life? Then you can't miss what you never had can you? I've never had a girlfriend, close friends etc so i can't miss anything much can i.

I do miss being with my friend in Poland though.
 

creep_x

Well-known member
as a kid, i did have friends. Now I do miss all that. I miss being called & I miss being visited by friends. But oh well, i am used to it.
 
Top