The whole world dislikes me

[Argamemnon]

I feel like everyone dislikes me and will always dislike me, since I always look gloomy, anxious and worried. But what can I do, this is my natural state..

We had guests today and I know they felt very uncomfortable because of me. I'm sick and tired of feeling guilty for making people nervous. It just happens, I always look gloomy or anxious. It's not my choice, I can't do anything about it

 

[freestylemonster]

Sure there's stuff you can do bout it! I used to always look down, slouch, frown and not make eye-contact with anyone. I always thought "That's just how I am and I can't change it" but I've worked hard on not slouching, making eye contact and smiling more. Now these things are just second nature to me. And to tell you the truth people seem a lot more comfortable around me now, and I feel a lot more aproachable. So NEVER say there's nothing you can do about it because that is NOT true!!

 

[Azahara]

I feel like everyone dislikes me and will always dislike me, since I always look gloomy, anxious and worried. But what can I do, this is my natural state..

We had guests today and I know they felt very uncomfortable because of me. I'm sick and tired of feeling guilty for making people nervous. It just happens, I always look gloomy or anxious. It's not my choice, I can't do anything about it

You´re natural state? You´re depressed when someone is depressed doesn´t want to see anyone or talk to anyone. A smile, some words.
It´s not necessary you say you guest how eprresed you are, only that you´ve got a bad day. You could stay for a short time with them and them say you have to do something. NEVER say you CAN´T.

 

[faithnomore]

I feel everyone hates me because of the way i look. I'm not ugly, but people look at me as if i'm famous (i'm not) but they look expectant like they are waiting for something to happen...It's hard to explain but it really annoys me, because i don't want to be centre of attention, but it feels like it too often.

 

[NightTimeForever]

I feel everyone hates me because of the way i look. I'm not ugly, but people look at me as if i'm famous (i'm not) but they look expectant like they are waiting for something to happen...It's hard to explain but it really annoys me, because i don't want to be centre of attention, but it feels like it too often.

Maybe you're gorgeous and don't know it?

 

[faithnomore]

I feel everyone hates me because of the way i look. I'm not ugly, but people look at me as if i'm famous (i'm not) but they look expectant like they are waiting for something to happen...It's hard to explain but it really annoys me, because i don't want to be centre of attention, but it feels like it too often.

Maybe you're gorgeous and don't know it?

lol thats well embarrasing, especially because i'm a guy!

I don't beleive in myself and i doubt i will ever get a girlfriend.

 

[no1]

Sure there's stuff you can do bout it! I used to always look down, slouch, frown and not make eye-contact with anyone. I always thought "That's just how I am and I can't change it" but I've worked hard on not slouching, making eye contact and smiling more. Now these things are just second nature to me. And to tell you the truth people seem a lot more comfortable around me now, and I feel a lot more aproachable. So NEVER say there's nothing you can do about it because that is NOT true!!

I dunno.. since it's kinda my 'natural state' to look down and out of it.. making eye contact sometimes just makes it worse because I look very anxious or fake or nervous, or even angry sometimes because I feel like I'm forcing it. Will this subside? I dont know.

Actually I'm always afraid of letting my emotions to show unless I really can't control it. Since I always feel like I'm being judged (becuase you know these days people don't like others who are having problems and wont help them for SH*T and just judge them as being incompetent losers or something with absolutely no brain or worth of living). If I catch myself putting my head down or looking like somethnig is "wrong" I usually just act like I snap out of it or pick my head up or something because I think it just "looks bad". I think people don't want to know about problems. It's like if someone is having a good day, I don't want to ruin it with my "negativity", and it's understandable that people don't want to be ruined by another person's negativity. Sometimes though I wish those people would stop being stuck up, because sometimes things that we have no control over have to happen no matter what. It would be almost the same as if a loved one is drowning in quicksand and you don't want to help that person because you would have to get your hands "dirty". Sometimes we have to get dirty, sometimes we have to deal with things that aren't perfect, that's the world we live in. For the time being we just have to deal with it. I shouldn't just go and commit suicide just because I'm having a somewhat "shitty" life and I have to mix in with others if I'm going to keep living. We are human beings.

 

[Chod77]

I feel like everyone dislikes me and will always dislike me, since I always look gloomy, anxious and worried. But what can I do, this is my natural state..

We had guests today and I know they felt very uncomfortable because of me. I'm sick and tired of feeling guilty for making people nervous. It just happens, I always look gloomy or anxious. It's not my choice, I can't do anything about it

Hey I like you. I always like what you say in your posts. I really relate to a lot of the things you say.

 

[Argamemnon]

Hey I like you. I always like what you say in your posts. I really relate to a lot of the things you say.

Hi Chod77, really? That made me happy, thank you very much

I sometimes think that I'm bothering people with my negativity and feel guilty about it.

 

[Sad-Kitten]

I've felt that way to, like i was sucking the energy out of the room or something. I try to remind myself that i really am not, but that it just feels that way.

 

[recluse]

I feel everyone hates me because of the way i look. I'm not ugly, but people look at me as if i'm famous (i'm not) but they look expectant like they are waiting for something to happen...It's hard to explain but it really annoys me, because i don't want to be centre of attention, but it feels like it too often.

I guess it's hard not to be centre of attention when you are Freddy Krueger

 

[afrodelicious]

honey here my advice and my advice for all of yall. find yalls passions an live for what yall love. aint get no simpler than that. yalls lives are where ya minds are at, bless yall everything will be fine

 

[faithnomore]

I feel everyone hates me because of the way i look. I'm not ugly, but people look at me as if i'm famous (i'm not) but they look expectant like they are waiting for something to happen...It's hard to explain but it really annoys me, because i don't want to be centre of attention, but it feels like it too often.

I guess it's hard not to be centre of attention when you are Freddy Krueger

lol, i've been through a few different pics. I tried will smith and arsenal fc. But they are good things.

Freddy Krueger is more about the bad things.