OceanMist
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I saw that other people have made journals, and me being the person that loves to get my thoughts out in these threads, I couldn't help myself.
Unfortunately, it seems I've made more enemies than friends on here lately, but I do encourage all people to post here if they have something that they want to say, whether it be positive, negative or neutral.
To start my journal, things have been going well for me in the past 4 months. I've been getting out there and meeting women in person which is a gigantic improvement compared to when I was a virgin and always alone. I feel more confident with talking to people, especially women, due to my dating and my job (flower delivery to businesses and houses).
I've found excuses to stay inside all the time and hide from people are easy to come up with, and can hurt one's chances of getting out of their shell. Exposure therapy has been effective in the past months.
As for very recently, I met a woman that was very nice and I connected with her. I was not totally sexually attracted to her due to her obvious overweight frame (just my preference that a woman be somewhat around average weight). Last night it seems we have parted ways which I knew was going to happen eventually because I was planning on ending on this from the first date.
I kind of rejected her because I could see further down the road and it just wasn't going to work out because I wasn't attracted to her enough sexually. Part of a possible relationship is being attracted to a woman sexually with confidence and I didn't feel that a relationship would be a possiblity and I got sick of being around her. I think a good test is to ask yourself is this woman attractive? If you hesitate or say no, then it's not going to work. That's my belief. I asked myself that question and the answer was no.
All of that is perfectly okay because I got experience out of it from a social and sexual aspect and I also got to experience what it's like to reject a woman. It only went two dates but we spent a long time together. I learned that from now on I should be a little more picky with a woman's weight and I also learned that I can be an effective communicator and get a woman to like me. Good stuff.
Things are going well, man, things are going well.
Unfortunately, it seems I've made more enemies than friends on here lately, but I do encourage all people to post here if they have something that they want to say, whether it be positive, negative or neutral.
To start my journal, things have been going well for me in the past 4 months. I've been getting out there and meeting women in person which is a gigantic improvement compared to when I was a virgin and always alone. I feel more confident with talking to people, especially women, due to my dating and my job (flower delivery to businesses and houses).
I've found excuses to stay inside all the time and hide from people are easy to come up with, and can hurt one's chances of getting out of their shell. Exposure therapy has been effective in the past months.
As for very recently, I met a woman that was very nice and I connected with her. I was not totally sexually attracted to her due to her obvious overweight frame (just my preference that a woman be somewhat around average weight). Last night it seems we have parted ways which I knew was going to happen eventually because I was planning on ending on this from the first date.
I kind of rejected her because I could see further down the road and it just wasn't going to work out because I wasn't attracted to her enough sexually. Part of a possible relationship is being attracted to a woman sexually with confidence and I didn't feel that a relationship would be a possiblity and I got sick of being around her. I think a good test is to ask yourself is this woman attractive? If you hesitate or say no, then it's not going to work. That's my belief. I asked myself that question and the answer was no.
All of that is perfectly okay because I got experience out of it from a social and sexual aspect and I also got to experience what it's like to reject a woman. It only went two dates but we spent a long time together. I learned that from now on I should be a little more picky with a woman's weight and I also learned that I can be an effective communicator and get a woman to like me. Good stuff.
Things are going well, man, things are going well.
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