Hey you know what, you're making me upset. I don't want to start feeling suicidal. Id like you to back off and stop criticizing me. I cant maintain my self-esteem without fighting back, I don't know how. Im trying. Please stop.
Thank you.
Tell Your Most Shamefull Secrets or Evidence Proving That You Are Unloveable
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Hey you know what, you're making me upset. I don't want to start feeling suicidal. Id like you to back off and stop criticizing me. I cant maintain my self-esteem without fighting back, I don't know how. Im trying. Please stop.
Thank you.
Phobologist, if this helps you sort stuff out then by all means go for it. Don't let a few counter opinions (including mine) hinder you. But this is an open forum so expect varied opinions from people.
agoraphobickatie
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that's exactly what i was trying to say, but he took it all offensively... no one is trying to insult you phobologist, i suppose we just felt that we could share our opinions as well... i guess they were unwelcome.
No I don't "know". These posts are the most insensitive and demeaning thing Ive seen in a while and its shocking. I spill all my secrets on a safe forum and I feel completely destroyed now. If you understood your own rhetoric, and believed it, then you wouldn't say such things. I am being so open and "whining" because my arms are tied. In any other circumstance I would have let fly with the most vicious insults and derogotary language imagenable. I may be ****ed up but I know how to hurt others too. IM trying to get BETTER, not worse.
Why can't people understand that others have problems not like theirs? I can't handle criticism, seriously! Please, just get that.
Yes thank you for understanding!
This is a really sensitive area for me and I dont go around saying this to basically anyone except my psychologist. I can't take any criticism, it's going to set me off and Im going to go nuts.
Maybe we should all stop this now? Let's change the subject shall we!
Anyone have a funny secret to tell?
I have one. The first time I smoked weed I was so high that the next morning I still hadn't come down. I had to give a presentation in my college public-speaking class. I kept choking up and was really nervous and couldn't say anything straight. Everyone was starting...then it hit me.
"Im still high".
It was hillarious after I sat back down.
"Im still high".
It was hillarious after I sat back down.
I once ate at Montana's and it tasted like shit.
Hana Montana's??? Hahahaha.
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Man you live where there's snow? Lucky. I wish we had snow in california.
I love it.
Anomaly
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Oh, but we do!
Hey!
You just got back on after a ban and then you order moderators around????
Don't throw your toys out of the pram because not all people do not agree with what you posted, your OP didn't exactly break any rules but it was heavy going,why not argue your corner?
Jake123
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I'd like to know too. Feel free to PM me with it Mr. Phobologist.
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Bar-AKA-Redzer
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You know, it makes me absolutely furious that you'd say that.
If you don't like it, you don't have to participate. But why should I be censored? If peopel want to participate, they have a choice. I did this on SocialAnxietySupport.com and it was the most popular thread there...ever.
Please, please, please, don't derail my thread. I really need to get over this.
Was me experssing my opinion about the thread and as you well know your always open to different opinions on a forum no matter what you post. So you cant really be gettin freaked like that
You said you really need to get over this which is totally fine and your well with in your right to say BUT to advoid all this you should of made the thread about yourself and said My Most Shamefull Secret or Evidence Proving That i am Unloveable And you totally freakin out and gettin so worked up over a difference in opinion is silly. Rite it seems its all been sorted now so anyways.
Remus, that's now how I met it. I was afraid of getting banned again, that is why I asked for you to close the post. I feel like I can't win here. I did not want to get banned. I apologize for the "order". It was not intentional.
I thought this place was supposed to be safe? I dont think people should be allowed to beat you up for your defects. But, that is not the reason I deleted the post. I did it because I was afraid of being banned.
Are you giving me permission to defend myself against those who want to put me down or silence me? I dont want to be accused of being disruptive.
Hey there Bar,
I dont understand, why should I have made this thread only about me? Last time I had everyone else sharing too and it was great for all. Is there something Im not seeing, something offensive? Please let me know.
Its not silly that Im freaking out. Perhaps agoraphobia is silly? Hmm? Or perhaps Panic in general is rediculous. I know, perhaps everyone on here with SA thats not as bad as mine is just a crybaby?! See, that kind of reasoning doesnt work. If you had my issues youd freak out too. Dont judge me.
Ps, Im sure you didnt mean any harm by your post. I really dont get how things work here. Maybe you can sum up the culture. What should I expect, how do things go around here?
Danfalc
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As long as you dont make personal attacks,or let things get out of hand if you can help it,you have every right to defend your opinions and stuff
Just common sence really.If your unsure about anything read the rules,I know that sounds a bit cold but they will give you an idea of what we consider crossing the line on here and stuff,I will try and find you a linky.linkage- http://www.socialphobiaworld.com/policy-revised-rules-3332/
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Bar-AKA-Redzer
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Hey there Bar,
I dont understand, why should I have made this thread only about me? Last time I had everyone else sharing too and it was great for all. Is there something Im not seeing, something offensive? Please let me know.
Its not silly that Im freaking out. Perhaps agoraphobia is silly? Hmm? Or perhaps Panic in general is rediculous. I know, perhaps everyone on here with SA thats not as bad as mine is just a crybaby?! See, that kind of reasoning doesnt work. If you had my issues youd freak out too. Dont judge me.
Ps, Im sure you didnt mean any harm by your post. I really dont get how things work here. Maybe you can sum up the culture. What should I expect, how do things go around here?
Like i said just my opinion, everyone is intitled to there own and as far as i see it i dont think it does much for anyone. I cant speak for everyone here so i cant tell you what to expect but like i said before when you post threads your open to criticism and people are gonna disagree so there was no need to over react like that and i also dont like how you talked to agoraphobickatie in the message you sent her because she disagreed with you.
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