It's been almost 5 years since my last relationship and have now entered a new relationship with a woman whom I met several years ago. Sometimes you just never know that someone you met in your past might be a future lover. My new love and I have seen each other maybe twice a year atvaries parties and such and have always clicked. It's all about timing. Funny thing is we live about 2 miles apart.
I told my new love about my hand sweating right off the bat. Her reaction was "so what." She mentioned how her hands and feet were always cold. Talking about taking a load off ones mind. Funny how I can hold her hand and feel dry. Yes, I do ionto and it works most of the time, but not all of the time.
At times I sweat around her and I've had full body sweating with her and it's no big deal. I only feel a little self conscious about it, but knowing I'm with a partner that doesn't care makes all the difference. She cares about me, not about how my hands, feet or body sweats. She doesn't jump, make faces or pull away if my hands are wet when I touch any part of her.
I've mentioned of how I've experienced this sort of thing in my life in previous older posts. I've also mentioned being on dates with people who pull there hands away from slight moisture coming from mine. When you meet someone special, the sweating stuff becomes small and I don't say this lightly.
It's wonderful not having to put a whole lot of worrying into something I have little control over. I've told my story numerous times over the years. Been married, have a child, divorced, several relationships etc.
Our life with another person is not defined by our sweaty problem. I'm living proof of that. Yes, it effects different areas of our lives, yet it doesn't have to in our love relationships. If you don't take a chance with someone, then you are the one loosing out.
Being in my 50's I learned to be up front about my sweating situation. The more you tell people about it, the easier it becomes whether it's just your friends, family or potential love interest. It was hard at first, but for me it's at the point like talking about the weather.
Just wanted to share
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I told my new love about my hand sweating right off the bat. Her reaction was "so what." She mentioned how her hands and feet were always cold. Talking about taking a load off ones mind. Funny how I can hold her hand and feel dry. Yes, I do ionto and it works most of the time, but not all of the time.
At times I sweat around her and I've had full body sweating with her and it's no big deal. I only feel a little self conscious about it, but knowing I'm with a partner that doesn't care makes all the difference. She cares about me, not about how my hands, feet or body sweats. She doesn't jump, make faces or pull away if my hands are wet when I touch any part of her.
I've mentioned of how I've experienced this sort of thing in my life in previous older posts. I've also mentioned being on dates with people who pull there hands away from slight moisture coming from mine. When you meet someone special, the sweating stuff becomes small and I don't say this lightly.
It's wonderful not having to put a whole lot of worrying into something I have little control over. I've told my story numerous times over the years. Been married, have a child, divorced, several relationships etc.
Our life with another person is not defined by our sweaty problem. I'm living proof of that. Yes, it effects different areas of our lives, yet it doesn't have to in our love relationships. If you don't take a chance with someone, then you are the one loosing out.
Being in my 50's I learned to be up front about my sweating situation. The more you tell people about it, the easier it becomes whether it's just your friends, family or potential love interest. It was hard at first, but for me it's at the point like talking about the weather.
Just wanted to share
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