strip clubs???

Harleyq

Well-known member
I know for me, it would be a huge turn off to find out a guy has been to a strip club.

me too, if the guy liked to go to strip clubs regularly.

It's not a moral dilemma or anything, I'm not one of those girls who thinks men who go to strip clubs are douches and assholes. My thing is, it would give me the impression of "So that's the kind of woman/sexual attention you like, eh?" and because I'm not attracted to that kind of scene, I would probably assume that we're not sexually compatible so I'd start losing interest.
 

Danfalc

Banned
As much as I appreciate the female form :D I dont think I would enjoy a strip club!Unless I was plastered but even then I'm not sure,I can remember one of my friends birthdays,his girlfriend hired him a stripper as a suprise.He was loving it,but I can remember thinking if that had been me I would of been so ::eek::! I couldnt handle all that attenion.
 

recluse

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The whole idea is so sleazy, i mean by going to them places you are objectifying women (o'r men in some case's) as mere pieces of meat, and i'm sure that most of the girls are probably nice and intelligent in their everyday lives.

I'm shocked that a lot of women allow their husband's/partners to go to these places, some even go along with them! I know this because in 2005 i went to Armenia because my friend offered that i go there to stay with her family, she mentioned that i could go with her brother who's married with kids to a strip club! I was pretty suprised because they seem so traditional and i personally find it dissrespectful for a married man to do such a thing.
 

Emily_G

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me too, if the guy liked to go to strip clubs regularly.

It's not a moral dilemma or anything, I'm not one of those girls who thinks men who go to strip clubs are douches and assholes. My thing is, it would give me the impression of "So that's the kind of woman/sexual attention you like, eh?" and because I'm not attracted to that kind of scene, I would probably assume that we're not sexually compatible so I'd start losing interest.

Exactly, I am the same way with porn. I am a natural woman, I cannot compete physically with plastic strippers and porn stars.
 

RedRibbons

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Harleyq said:
me too, if the guy liked to go to strip clubs regularly.

It's not a moral dilemma or anything, I'm not one of those girls who thinks men who go to strip clubs are douches and assholes. My thing is, it would give me the impression of "So that's the kind of woman/sexual attention you like, eh?" and because I'm not attracted to that kind of scene, I would probably assume that we're not sexually compatible so I'd start losing interest.
Exactly, I am the same way with porn. I am a natural woman, I cannot compete physically with plastic strippers and porn stars.

I think you guys better describe my feelings about that sort of thing. I still have my other ideas too though.
 
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releaseme

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strip clubs attract certain types of men...you're young, go for it. you'll see when you get there, if you fit in. if anything, do it for the learning experience.
 

releaseme

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It is my theory that if you have been to one strip club you have been tothem all

for the most part...thats true

i've been twice...the first time was weird, the second was to confirm the weirdness.

however...i will never judge anyone for doing what they have to, to make their ends meet. and i've heard women say they make some good money dancing the pole...no pun intended.
 

lonelywolf

Active member
i used to go but felt sad afterwards its alot of money for a quick thrill it just made me sad that i didnt have a real girlfriend and i stopped years ago sure being in close physical contact with the girls was great as they had great bodies and were nice to you but its all about the money for them if u think diferent you are only foolin yourself::eek::
 

Why

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pretty much the last reason going for me is the physical aspect, i just want to take a risk, get my heart beating, and have fun with my friends. I hope it will open new doors to my social life and cause me to be braver and easygoing
 
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