Unspoken
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I decided to suck it up and try online dating after massive improvements in my overall anxiety levels this year. I list myself as female seeking female, but I still receive messages from males seeking females. I also listed that I'm looking for friendship, so that's been my assumption about their intentions. The confusing thing is that I've received a few "winks" or prompts from similar features. If it was from a woman I'd assume it was an attempt at flirting or hinting that I should talk to her, but it doesn't serve a purpose for men.
Does this say:
1) "I didn't notice the 'seeking' category."
2) "I'm trying my luck despite the 'seeking' category."
3) "I noticed you were looking for friends as well and I'm trying to be friendly. I might be unsure if you're interested in talking."
4) "I am a robot designed to send these. Beep boop."
And if it's #1 or #2, should I be more cautious of who I chat to in case I'm giving someone the wrong idea? I assumed that since we're all adults and not exactly in the age range where people are notable for being unsure of their orientation that anyone visiting my profile would take note and choose to interact or not interact accordingly, but...
Does this say:
1) "I didn't notice the 'seeking' category."
2) "I'm trying my luck despite the 'seeking' category."
3) "I noticed you were looking for friends as well and I'm trying to be friendly. I might be unsure if you're interested in talking."
4) "I am a robot designed to send these. Beep boop."
And if it's #1 or #2, should I be more cautious of who I chat to in case I'm giving someone the wrong idea? I assumed that since we're all adults and not exactly in the age range where people are notable for being unsure of their orientation that anyone visiting my profile would take note and choose to interact or not interact accordingly, but...