Some advice please?

[Confuseddd]

This kid i know , he used to be like one of my best friends, just called and wants to hang out again. Only thing though is we stopped hanging out because he was becoming a prick about my SA and just making fun of me whenever i would have panic attacks(which would make my panic attacks so much worse...) So when he called me just a little while ago i immediately got extremely anxious and i dont know what to do? should i hang out with him or should i just avoid him or what? ?? ????

 

[panicsurvivor]

Avoid him. If your friends can't understand and be supportive when you have panic attacks they are not worth having around. If you had a deformity and they gave you a hard time, would you still hang around them?

 

[Confuseddd]

yeah ok, i dont think i would be able to handle the anxiety anyways, because just talking to him on the phone now after the way he treated me when i would have panic attacks is enough to have my heart racing and me pacing, hehhh

 

[punklove]

Don't hang out with him. In fact if I were you I'd completly remove him from your life. You don't need negativity like that in your life.

 

[Confuseddd]

Don't hang out with him. In fact if I were you I'd completly remove him from your life. You don't need negativity like that in your life.

mhm.. he was horrible to me anyways. i dont even know why i picked up the phone