How do I get rid of my severe social anxiety without taking medication? I have tried therapy, my therapist just made me feel stupid, so I stopped going. I have been on a bunch of meds but got off of them all 2 years ago. I am living my life alone, scared,anxious,paranoid, I am ruining and wasting my youth. I am so tired of it. How do I change? Anyone on here overcome their social anxiety? How?!?! People make me shake nervously and my heart rate go up, where I can't breathe, I am so sick of feeling so nervous when I have to talk to a person.