So lonely I can't even sleep

[dannyboy65]

I find it so hard to sleep lately. All I think about is her, it haunts me every night that I don't have the guts to tell her how I feel. I just want her beside me in my arms. I don't want sex or any of that bullshit, I just want her. I wish there was some way I could tell her.

 

[S_Spartan]

I find it so hard to sleep lately. All I think about is her, it haunts me every night that I don't have the guts to tell her how I feel. I just want her beside me in my arms. I don't want sex or any of that bullshit, I just want her. I wish there was some way I could tell her.

That is great! I remember when I would feel that way about girls. Even if you don't tell her enjoy the passion.
I'm pretty much passionless at this point.

 

[YellowBird]

teehee sex is "bullshit",as an asexual i agree:3
but yeaa..i know the feel,i think you should really try to tell her,you never know..

 

[Littlewilly]

I know how you feel mate it is hard to tell
someone how you feel abt them but try to think of it
this way if you don't & someone else steps in or she suddenly
leaves your probably going to start beating yourself up over it
that you didn't tell her & then you might start feeling even worse:crying:

Please take heart

 

[maribunny]

Dude, you will keep beating yourself up if you don't tell her!!
It will eat you up.

Just think: she deserves the truth. Also, it is quite a brave act to tell her.

I know this is cheesy as hell but, if you can't bare to tell her in person, write her a letter. Personally, letters get to me because there is just something so genuine and personal about a hand-written letter.

Telling her how things look from your perspective will give her a new way of seeing things which she needs and, hopefully, a realization.

But, before that, just make sure she is the right girl and you aren't hurting yourself. Some girls don't know what type of guy is right for them, while the right guy is literally right under their noses. Before persuading her that you're right for her, make sure she is right for you. :thinking:

Good luck!

 

[FountainandFairfax]

THIS is exactly why I pulled a "Major Tom" with the whole romance thing years ago. ha ha

I can't hack it.