Danfalc
Banned
Okay this is a bit personal so i wont be suprised if i dont get many responces. But does anyone feel like sp really affects sex, emotionaly rather than physicaly, i mean i put up my walls when im with people, and i do the same during sex, I mean i still enjoy it, but i find it hard to be passionate and caring, and probaly come across as quite cold and distant during it, and even more so afterwards because thats when you tend to cuddle and stuff like that, so i tend to make an excuse and go afterwards because i find it hard to be close to people.It makes me really guilty because i feel like im using people for just sex,But to be honest if i had the choice, id sooner stick with the cuddles and being close if i could cope with that and pass on the sex.