Self-Discovery/Self-Stimulation wrong or ok?

[MotherWolff]

^^^^^I agree with your question, jc972. That is a very good point you made there. A person's partner might do something to him/her that makes them feel very uncomfortable. So if they do self-discovery, he/she can find out what makes them feel good and have their partner do that to them too.

I think another good reason to do self-discovery is to release sexual frustration and sexual tension.

 

[doctor_who]

I am all up for self discover. I think its natural to do it and it can be something to enjoy with your partner too. However I think if a guy wants to watch porn more than he wants to have sex with his partner then theres something wrong there and that guy should seek help. So overall I think its okay to do, its enjoyable however when porn is involved I think thats a big no because it ruins relationships. Id say im an easy going woman but I have a massive issue with porn...mainly because its disgusting and makes me feel shitty about myself.

 

[ImNotMyIllness]

It's important. Self pleasure will teach you what you like and how to get you there. It also improve your love life with that special someone. So, light some candles and enjoy!

 

[Agent_Violet]

I think from the title, most people here will know what I'm talking about. I don't like using the word, "masturbation" anymore because it has really bad taboo.

So, why is it taboo anyway? Why do so many people think its wrong, and why should other people have to justify it? I am still one of those people who think its wrong, but I plan to do it very soon after years of not doing it.

What do you guys/gals think about this? I really want to know your thoughts on this?

I think it's fabulous.I wouldn't know anything about my body or what gets me off had I not explored.
It remains a mystery why self love has been turned into a dirty thing.I'll blame the darn catholics...they think anything pleasurable is bad :bigsmile:

 

[Kiwong]

Bloody testosterone keeps rearing its insistent head in me, so I thinks OK biology if you must interrupt, then I may as well make it short and sweet and enjoyable, so I get back on with more constructive activities in my life.

 

[XxXWhiteRoseXxX]

I'm A Wanker (Ivor Biggun) - YouTube

I think this song has the answer.

Oh my.


I love a good adventure! :bigsmile: I'm definitely a fan of sexually stimulating myself..... it helps me sleep. Why people are against it is beyond me.

I don't see anything wrong with masturbation as long as it doesn't interfere with your everyday life.

On the other hand, it seems to be an extremely taboo subject among everyone I know. All of my friends deny masturbating, with the exception of two- one of which is very ashamed of the act. There isn't a member of my entire family that would "dare to speak of such things". :idontknow: