Scottish_Player
Well-known member
I thought it would be good to have a post where we could put up positive stories and things that have worked out well for us other than just talking about the things we cant do and the things that go wrong.
Well after reading the posts by Nickabcuk he has certainly opened up my mind about things.
I went to Mc Donalds today,something that may mean nothing to some people but i went to the one round the corner from me that i hate,i went through the drive thru and i had too repeat myself cause the guy coudlnt hear me as i was speakin so low,normaly i would fell terrible here but after reading what Nick said i decided to learn from it rather than fail myself on it and what i learnt is that i must speak clearer and louder the next time.
I also went to the train station today another thing i dont like as there is lots of people but it wasnt too busy and rather than sitting in my car and waitng to pick my mum up,i went out to the platform to wait on here and i didnt feel as bad as i thought i would.I think that avoiding these things most my life has made it seem bad but actualy being in the situation wasnt what i was expecting so for me that was another succes
I have found that dwelling on my problems does nothing,after reading nicks post last night and listening to "The 7 habits of highly effective people" (that i downloaded
) last night i was excited and felt a little hope and actualy was looking forward to getting out today and it was good
iam not saying that iam reading to go host a confreence or anything like that i just feel ready to do somthing and start making changes.
Well it looks like my message is getting rather long so i will cut it off here .
Well after reading the posts by Nickabcuk he has certainly opened up my mind about things.
I went to Mc Donalds today,something that may mean nothing to some people but i went to the one round the corner from me that i hate,i went through the drive thru and i had too repeat myself cause the guy coudlnt hear me as i was speakin so low,normaly i would fell terrible here but after reading what Nick said i decided to learn from it rather than fail myself on it and what i learnt is that i must speak clearer and louder the next time.
I also went to the train station today another thing i dont like as there is lots of people but it wasnt too busy and rather than sitting in my car and waitng to pick my mum up,i went out to the platform to wait on here and i didnt feel as bad as i thought i would.I think that avoiding these things most my life has made it seem bad but actualy being in the situation wasnt what i was expecting so for me that was another succes
I have found that dwelling on my problems does nothing,after reading nicks post last night and listening to "The 7 habits of highly effective people" (that i downloaded
Well it looks like my message is getting rather long so i will cut it off here .