queenhelena
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I often get called a loner because I don't hang out with anyone. Especially by guys. Guys are the only ones that point it out. I think its because I am a chick. I don't know. But the fact is, is that I really love being alone. I love who I am. But it still hurts to be called out on it. I know I should ignore it, but when people always make comments it really is a constant reminder to me and it feels like they try to put me down to make themselves feel better because they have what I don't have or I don't know another reason why people might do it. But I my chose to be alone. I feel like saying why can't you see that's who I am and get on with your own lives. I don't talk about them like that. I accept them for who they are.I just don't get it in return:/ But anyways, I have this person who comes over for my house for counseling and she acts like she knows everything all the time. But what aggravates me the most is when she reminds me I don't have a social life when I am in my room. She thinks I hide in there. She wants me to come out more. But I don't want to. I feel like I am not accepted by anyone. I get this feeling like she controls me and laughs about it. This happens when I don't have sessions with her. It's like why can't she mind her own business and help the person you came over to help. Two sessions ago she make a comment saying that I hide in my room but I wasn't I was so exhausted because I didn't sleep the night before. My sisters still told her I was tired and she still said it. It makes me so frustrated. She always does things like that. I feel like I have controlling people in my life. I need help coping with it. My mom is controlling too. I just need some tips. Has anyone dealt with a controlling person before? How did you deal with it? Please help me out here!! Also have you dealt with a situation where people called you a loner and called you out on it? How did you deal with it? I just want to help myself and become a better person. Thanks.