Obviously, sometimes it can be kind of apparent when someone is a bit lonely or doesn't do exactly what your parents expect you to be doing at a certain age.
Occasionally, I get confronted by my mother and she asks me things like why don't I go out or bring any friends home and stuff. She also asks me if I am interested in girls which really bothers me because I don't see how that's relevant to anything so I refuse to answer that question. Anyways, these topics are really sensitive to me being someone with SA. The second my mom confronts me with them, I go ballistic. By ballistic, I mean getting into a heated and emotional argument over what's normal and what's not, how everyone is not the same, and this and that.
It always end in a stalemate, and the questioning sessions keep reoccurring occasionally. Obviously I launch myself into a tirade, because if there's one thing I will NEVER do. Is admit to my parents that I have SA.
1. I don't want them to think something is wrong with me (they already do, but whatever, the arguments make them think otherwise for a little while).
2. I don't want them to worry about me.
3. I don't want their help when it comes to SA or ANYTHING related to it.
4. I'll be DAMNED, if I ever admit having SA to them.
Don't get me wrong, I love my parents, I trust them, and I know they want the best for me, but talking about really personal things about myself with them is just something out of the question. I don't feel comfortable doing it (not that I do with anyone, but ESPECIALLY not them).
/endRANT
So how do you guys and girls feel about being confronted by your parent(s)?
Occasionally, I get confronted by my mother and she asks me things like why don't I go out or bring any friends home and stuff. She also asks me if I am interested in girls which really bothers me because I don't see how that's relevant to anything so I refuse to answer that question. Anyways, these topics are really sensitive to me being someone with SA. The second my mom confronts me with them, I go ballistic. By ballistic, I mean getting into a heated and emotional argument over what's normal and what's not, how everyone is not the same, and this and that.
It always end in a stalemate, and the questioning sessions keep reoccurring occasionally. Obviously I launch myself into a tirade, because if there's one thing I will NEVER do. Is admit to my parents that I have SA.
1. I don't want them to think something is wrong with me (they already do, but whatever, the arguments make them think otherwise for a little while).
2. I don't want them to worry about me.
3. I don't want their help when it comes to SA or ANYTHING related to it.
4. I'll be DAMNED, if I ever admit having SA to them.
Don't get me wrong, I love my parents, I trust them, and I know they want the best for me, but talking about really personal things about myself with them is just something out of the question. I don't feel comfortable doing it (not that I do with anyone, but ESPECIALLY not them).
/endRANT
So how do you guys and girls feel about being confronted by your parent(s)?