I was in an intense relationship that ended about 8 months ago. He broke up with me because he apparently felt I didn’t love him the way I used to. I’ll tell you a bit of the history so you get the picture. We were together for a year, I loved him…hard. He loved me just the same. We spent day and night together, that went on for a few months. I graduated school started a new job which absorbed quite a bit of time. I made new friends. I noticed small changes with in him. He no longer wanted to go out with me in a group setting, he would whine and pout. He preferred I stayed home with him. Well eventually this escalated and he broke up with me. Naturally I was devastated. For 3 months I did everything I could do to get him back. I closed off all friends and family in hopes that he would realize he was my priority. Well that did nothing for him. I was devastated. I fell into the worst depression I have ever experienced. Fast forward 5 months later I re located for a new job and he is puppy dog begging for any bit of attention I can give him. He has sent flowers gifts and frankly I just feel sorry for him. I have absolutely no interest in this man. And while it might seem cold hearted of me I can’t help finding satisfaction in his anguish.
Oh my how the tables have turned
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DeadmanWalking
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Well, I'm not sure if feeling some enjoyment out of his situation is right or wrong. On one hand, it's karma and it's good seeing it work out, but, on the other hand, enjoying a person's misery doesn't seem morally right to me. I guess it is what it is. But, don't be controlled by it though. Don't let your past with him chain you to him. Sometimes, the best thing to do is to let things go and to forgive and forget.