Not sure what to do anymore... Please help

[Forgotten-Children]

I'm in a pretty serious situation... I'm in debt because I dropped out of college, because I was becoming very depressed and kept having "bad day dreams". Anyone have these? They're like flashes of visions of bad things happen when you see or think of something like say, looking down to the next floor where the staircase is and imagine falling? (of corse... during the time I was in school, I kept having these images of my boyfriend dying from his Wilson's or breaking up with me..)

Since dropping out, I've been trying to get on disability as well as find a job but neither have been successful.. The government thinks I can still do minor jobs dispite my Obsessive Anxiety Disorder, ADHD, and Asperger Syndrome. And the handful of people highering in my town, won't higher me and won't say why... I'm thinking it's because I'm WAY too timid even when I had the interview (and one I was even the first one there for Mc Donald's).

I keep trying to go back to places but they just aren't highering now..

And as far as other ways of money, I've signed up for the home jobs and they didn't work for me. I tried my own gardening survice but only had one customer and I don't even see her anymore because the August heat killed her plants...

I need to find someway to get money but no one wants to seem to help me. My boyfriend can't because he lives like 2000 miles away from me. My parents say they're swamped in bills themselves because of me and my siblings. I have no real-life friends...

If this keeps up, I'll be brought to court... I dunno what I'll do if that happens..

Please.. Someone help.

 

[Danfalc]

The first thing you need to do is contact citizens advice.Honest they can help you so so much.And they will be happy to.They will help you sort your debts out..ring companies who are harassing you and get them off your back.They can also help with getting onto benefits.And they will definitively be able to prevent you going to court.Though you can;t be taken to court if you agree to try and pay the debts off,even if it's something silly like five pounds a month.

I'm sorry your having a hard time with getting benefits.I had my medical recently and they do treat you like dirt.If they even believe you there is a stigma about mental health issues.

I only managed to get on long term sick benefits after getting my doctor write me sick notes every month for a year.They are looking for any excuse to stop benefits these days so I can't stress how important it is to have a medical professional backing your claim up.

 

[Forgotten-Children]

The first thing you need to do is contact citizens advice.Honest they can help you so so much.And they will be happy to.They will help you sort your debts out..ring companies who are harassing you and get them off your back.They can also help with getting onto benefits.And they will definitively be able to prevent you going to court.Though you can;t be taken to court if you agree to try and pay the debts off,even if it's something silly like five pounds a month.

I'm sorry your having a hard time with getting benefits.I had my medical recently and they do treat you like dirt.If they even believe you there is a stigma about mental health issues.

I only managed to get on long term sick benefits after getting my doctor write me sick notes every month for a year.They are looking for any excuse to stop benefits these days so I can't stress how important it is to have a medical professional backing your claim up.

Citizen's advice? Mrr... It looks like that's only in the UK. I live in the US.

Well thanks anyway.

 

[Danfalc]

Yep sorry I presumed you were in the uk for some reason.I'm sure there will be something similar in the states.

My advice still stands about agreeing to pay them something at least,that normally gets them off your back.And having a professional to back up your benefits claim.

Good luck with it all

 

[Remus]

citizens advice seems to be just a UK thing, maybe there local government that can help in the US? anyone know?