MBinMN
Well-known member
Im so angry today because her passive agressive, back handed compliments, unsolicted advice and loaded questions that I have had to dodge and somehow sort through all my life are carrying over to my husband.
She cuts him down for his hobbies - he likes to 4 wheel. (well what does he need to do that for?)
He owns his own successful business and has a office 30 miles from here. In the summer often he works from home 3 days a week, saves on gas etc (well what does he need that office for)
We moved last summer 30 miles away from her and are renting a 4 bedroom home (we have 5 kids total however 3 are adult children who are in college - 2 are going to graduate high school next spring) -- her comments( oh you are not going to stay in that house long, in a year you are going to move back here closer to me NOT mother dear)
THE WORST COMMENT she made to me
"You were so much happier before you met him, since you met him you have gained 100 pounds" FALSE maybe 30 but certainly not 100
Im so sick her, I know she is the one of the reasons why when I go anywhere I feel the whole world is judging me. Why I never feel good enough.
I am 41 years old ... I should not be at a stage in my life where my mother still gets to me.
She cuts him down for his hobbies - he likes to 4 wheel. (well what does he need to do that for?)
He owns his own successful business and has a office 30 miles from here. In the summer often he works from home 3 days a week, saves on gas etc (well what does he need that office for)
We moved last summer 30 miles away from her and are renting a 4 bedroom home (we have 5 kids total however 3 are adult children who are in college - 2 are going to graduate high school next spring) -- her comments( oh you are not going to stay in that house long, in a year you are going to move back here closer to me NOT mother dear)
THE WORST COMMENT she made to me
"You were so much happier before you met him, since you met him you have gained 100 pounds" FALSE maybe 30 but certainly not 100
Im so sick her, I know she is the one of the reasons why when I go anywhere I feel the whole world is judging me. Why I never feel good enough.
I am 41 years old ... I should not be at a stage in my life where my mother still gets to me.