Hey, I'm 19, and ever since I could remember I have shyed away from social situations. The best example I can give from my early life is the fact that I dreaded the fact that I had to go to kindergarten. (I often wonder why I am the way I am, and often my answer is this:it's just always the way I have been) I had one friend in elementary school, who loved videogames, as I did. I never ran around the nighborhood with a group of friends, never played a pickup soccer game. I spent most of my time on the computer, or playing crash bandicoot on ps1.
Middle school, high school, similar story, with a few more friends, no one 'close' though. Most of my life has been spent on google, searching random stuff that pops into my head, and clicking random links. No computer games, no IMing, nothing fun. I don't have any interests. Filling out a resume is excruciatingly painful for me, realizing how little I have done with my life. I don't have a car, I don have a license, I've never had any responsibility. My dad (parents divorce, big part of the story, ****ed me up real good) never holds to anything he says, talks and never acts, and I have fallen into this trap.
I spend most of my time watching TV, close to vegetating, depressing myself over how horrible and lifeless my life is. I plan to do awesome things and make amazing things, but they never get done. This hurts.
Ive got no one close to me, like as in a relationship. Im with my dad 99% of the time, and he always acts like he cares, and that he wants to help, and they he's a 'good dad,' but the truth is hes a complete *******.
Since I have literally sheltered myself my entire life, I have no social skills. In college (i have a 4.0 because literally, I feel I have nothing better to do than study) and in social situations, I over-analyze conversations. I am an awkward person, I never know what to talk about, because I don't know anything about anything, because I don't do anything.
I feel like I will never be able to pick up on the nuances of a relationship, not only social situations. I can't express myself, I can't tell people how I feel, because I am too concerned with obsessing over what I think I should be feeling, to the point where I don't 'feel' any way (or anything).
In a freshman in college. I have a customer service job at my college, (torture) no license, I feel trapped. I feel like I will never be able to relate to anyone, because I have never related to anyone in the past (all relationships with family and friends are shallow and meaningless), therefore I dont have the skills to relate to people in the future. I see myself living the life of a lonely bachelor... I care about people, and want relationships, but they seem so hard and complex and mentally and physically draining.
Is my life over? What do I do?
Anything you can say about this small look into my story is to me, worth more than gold. Thanks. Merry Christmas.
Middle school, high school, similar story, with a few more friends, no one 'close' though. Most of my life has been spent on google, searching random stuff that pops into my head, and clicking random links. No computer games, no IMing, nothing fun. I don't have any interests. Filling out a resume is excruciatingly painful for me, realizing how little I have done with my life. I don't have a car, I don have a license, I've never had any responsibility. My dad (parents divorce, big part of the story, ****ed me up real good) never holds to anything he says, talks and never acts, and I have fallen into this trap.
I spend most of my time watching TV, close to vegetating, depressing myself over how horrible and lifeless my life is. I plan to do awesome things and make amazing things, but they never get done. This hurts.
Ive got no one close to me, like as in a relationship. Im with my dad 99% of the time, and he always acts like he cares, and that he wants to help, and they he's a 'good dad,' but the truth is hes a complete *******.
Since I have literally sheltered myself my entire life, I have no social skills. In college (i have a 4.0 because literally, I feel I have nothing better to do than study) and in social situations, I over-analyze conversations. I am an awkward person, I never know what to talk about, because I don't know anything about anything, because I don't do anything.
I feel like I will never be able to pick up on the nuances of a relationship, not only social situations. I can't express myself, I can't tell people how I feel, because I am too concerned with obsessing over what I think I should be feeling, to the point where I don't 'feel' any way (or anything).
In a freshman in college. I have a customer service job at my college, (torture) no license, I feel trapped. I feel like I will never be able to relate to anyone, because I have never related to anyone in the past (all relationships with family and friends are shallow and meaningless), therefore I dont have the skills to relate to people in the future. I see myself living the life of a lonely bachelor... I care about people, and want relationships, but they seem so hard and complex and mentally and physically draining.
Is my life over? What do I do?
Anything you can say about this small look into my story is to me, worth more than gold. Thanks. Merry Christmas.