my inexperience with women...

Anubis

Anubis

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I find that software and instructional video is a much more feasible medium for rapid evaluation. Ethically evaluating a program costs the distributor nothing since it's all done digitally (No shipping costs, and wear and tear is non-existent). If after trying the program, I like it, I can simply contact the distributor to secure permanent purchase. On the other hand, if I don't like the program, then I can simply dispose of the program. At this point, my relationship to the manufacturer ends without any loss on either side, or any financial agreements that may be wrongly construed on both sides. This method of evaluation has single-handedly led me to the eventual purchase of hundreds of dollars of worth of software that I would otherwise never try.

Computers don't follow the same paradigm. They suffer wear and tear. And they're physical assets that cost manufacturers tremendous sums of money to house and distribute. Therefore, it's extremely impractical for me to use the same method with them.

But again, we're arguing over one issue.

I never said your point wasn't valid. I just believe my argument for using torrents for evaluation purposes is equally as valid (I'm also aware that the law may not be on my side, but beware, the law isn't necessarily always on the ethical side). And if you disagree, fine. But don't take a shit on my life and imply that I lack values and integrity just because we disagree on one issue. It's extremely condescending.
 
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Jay Cataldo

Jay Cataldo

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no1 said:
I think my inexperience with women has made me harsh and irritating...

Also when I am around girls I am afraid that they will see my hunger.

Or whatever. I try to be nice and easy going.

When I was younger I used to be with women very gentle but I was also messed up.

I dunno.

people tell me different things on how to act with women. I dont know how to respond. I don't know what to do with women.

I try to gain experience but I'm finding out that I really don't know how to deal with women. I don't want to go by someone else's reasoning either. Most of what I've heard from pick up artists and others are to NOT to listen to women.
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No1,

It's normal for men who have been treated "unfairly" by women their entire lives to harbor a great deal of resentment for the opposite sex in addition to feeling like one is flawed or not good enough. From the looks of all your posts, you have a ton of issues with women that need to be worked on or you will suffer needlessly for the rest of your life.

I recommend that you get yourself to a good therapist asap and get to work. These wounds run deep and are not going to disappear by putting up a few posts on a message board, no matter how incredible the advice you may receive from us.

Sickjoke has put up a lot of great posts on what a guy can do to start becoming attractive to the opposite sex, but imo, none of this stuff will make a difference until you resolve your deep-rooted issues. You really need to stop posting, search out a therapist in your area (you can do this online) and go make an appointment. Then you can come back here and post about your progress, which will not only help you understand yourself better, but your writings will also benefit others on this board who are dealing with similar issues. This way, you can positively contribute to people's lives, which will give you a sense of purpose and turn you into a role model for others which I hope will motivate you enough to stay on the path to recovery.

You have to make the decision to do something about this, and soon. Are you able to afford therapy? I really feel this should be your first priority right now.
 
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licorice

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Jay Cataldo said:
She hit it on the head. Money helps in some ways but can't make up for a lack of personality and heart. But as cool as she is, she really needs to preface all her posts with, "I'm different than most girls." Licorice, maybe you can add that line to your sig. ;)

And you are far more eloquent than I am. Can you please start ghostwriting all my posts for me? It's the least you can do after your little tryst in our pool shed. Love ya.
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Well Jay thank you for supporting my thoughts and sure babe anything you want,I glady accept visa,mastercard,american express...The pool boy needs a new pair of shorts...Its so nice by the water...XOXO
 
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