Elenwen
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I really don't like making new threads--I prefer to just respond to other people, but I feel the need to write this out.
Apparently my grandpa died last night. It was expected, I don't remember if I wrote about it here or not but he just recently got diagnosed with lung cancer and the doctors said he wouldn't live long (obviously they were right, heh). Anyway, I didn't really feel much when I got the news that he had lung cancer. I mean, obviously I felt bad for my mom and my grandma and him, but it didn't really affect me too much that he was sick. I haven't seen him in over fifteen years. The main thing I remember about him is chain-smoking. And his farts, lol. Lord could he fart.
Anyway, I logged onto Myspace and didn't have any messages or anything, so I was just about to log off when I caught sight of a bunch of status updates from my family saying that he died. So I check my email to see if maybe they emailed me instead of messaged, but nope, nothing there either. So I found out that my grandpa died via Myspace STATUS updates. Not even a message! I mean, they could have at least taken the time to let me know personally, instead of the way any acquaintance finds out. :/ I don't have a phone, so they couldn't have called, but not even a message. Goodness, the fact that that's how I found out upsets me more than the fact that he's dead!
Speaking of feelings, I really don't CARE that he's dead. All my family seem so devastated, but I just don't care. I'm dreading the next time I speak to my sister or mom, because I know that that's all they'll want to talk about, and I don't know what to say. I don't want to pretend to be sad about it when I'm not. But I don't want to come across as completely insensitive, though I'm sure I seem insensitive enough after logging on, seeing the updates, and not changing mine to something like "My grandpa died, please pray for my family." I would feel false if I did that. I don't want people to think that I'm all torn up over this when I'm not, but at the same time I don't want them to think I'm completely heartless for NOT feeling sad.
I don't even know what I want out of this post. :/ Please pray for my family ;P (couldn't resist, haha)
Apparently my grandpa died last night. It was expected, I don't remember if I wrote about it here or not but he just recently got diagnosed with lung cancer and the doctors said he wouldn't live long (obviously they were right, heh). Anyway, I didn't really feel much when I got the news that he had lung cancer. I mean, obviously I felt bad for my mom and my grandma and him, but it didn't really affect me too much that he was sick. I haven't seen him in over fifteen years. The main thing I remember about him is chain-smoking. And his farts, lol. Lord could he fart.
Anyway, I logged onto Myspace and didn't have any messages or anything, so I was just about to log off when I caught sight of a bunch of status updates from my family saying that he died. So I check my email to see if maybe they emailed me instead of messaged, but nope, nothing there either. So I found out that my grandpa died via Myspace STATUS updates. Not even a message! I mean, they could have at least taken the time to let me know personally, instead of the way any acquaintance finds out. :/ I don't have a phone, so they couldn't have called, but not even a message. Goodness, the fact that that's how I found out upsets me more than the fact that he's dead!
Speaking of feelings, I really don't CARE that he's dead. All my family seem so devastated, but I just don't care. I'm dreading the next time I speak to my sister or mom, because I know that that's all they'll want to talk about, and I don't know what to say. I don't want to pretend to be sad about it when I'm not. But I don't want to come across as completely insensitive, though I'm sure I seem insensitive enough after logging on, seeing the updates, and not changing mine to something like "My grandpa died, please pray for my family." I would feel false if I did that. I don't want people to think that I'm all torn up over this when I'm not, but at the same time I don't want them to think I'm completely heartless for NOT feeling sad.
I don't even know what I want out of this post. :/ Please pray for my family ;P (couldn't resist, haha)