Most Annoying Questions,

[Lea]

"You have beautiful hair! Is it real?" "How long did it take for your hair to grow?" I know it's a harmless question but I don't keep track of the time it takes for my hair to grow. "You're sooo skinny. Don't you ever eat?"

What's annoying on that

 

[shore_of_glass]

when ppl ask me "why are you so shy" or "why are you like that, get some friends" or say "snap out of it" I just feel like shouting in their face "ITS ****ING SOCIAL ANXIETY, GOOGLE IT".

But then I'd feel like a whiny bitch that makes SA an excuse not to do things.

 

[Lorraine Manca]

what did you do over the weekend?

how am i supposed to remember that? i cant even remember what i was doing five minutes ago!

 

[DebbieDowner]

I hate when people tell me to just "get over it" when they don't understand my random fears. My mom used to have pretty bad SA when she was younger but it's not as bad now and she always tells me to not let my feelings control me, to not let them run my life, but it's like damn! if I could, I would! Another good one is "people have to do things in life that they don't want to do" as if I just don't want to go to the grocery store or something, when in reality it's like, no, I don't want to go to the grocery store because it scares the crap out of me and I will probably have a panic attack...!

The worst things that people can ask or say are things that belittle SA, OCD, depression, etc even when they're trying to help.

 

[Tempus35]

when ppl ask me "why are you so shy" or "why are you like that, get some friends" or say "snap out of it" I just feel like shouting in their face "ITS ****ING SOCIAL ANXIETY, GOOGLE IT".

But then I'd feel like a whiny bitch that makes SA an excuse not to do things.

I get that, that is it seems people see me as a whiner.

 

[brokenfingers04]

"You don't talk much, do you?"

"Your just way too quiet."

 

[twinsquirrel9]

Come on , what are the most annoying things you have to deal with by having either social anxiety, general anxiety disorder, or OCD etc, these are some of my pet peeves.
I hate to get asked:

Why don't you smile? Why aren't you smiling? Why don't you talk? Why are you so quiet? etc. Why don't you just stop doing that (OCD)?

What are some of yours and why?? What do you do if you have no one to actually talk to about it cuz no one really knows anything about OCD and doesn't understand? Blogs and forums and therapist only? I also started writing it in a Journal. what do you guys all do that helps when no one can talk about it?

The why don't you smile and why don't you talk get on my last NERVE! I mean i don't even know wht they expect me to say cuz "hello?" I apparently don't talk. Its even more annoying because if i told them they wouldn't understand. I mean, I didn't know what was wrong with me until i searched it up in 9th grade and found out me and my sister had social phobia. I'm glad i found out tho. ::

 

[DebbieDowner]

The why don't you smile and why don't you talk get on my last NERVE! I mean i don't even know wht they expect me to say cuz "hello?" I apparently don't talk.

lol SOOOOOOOO true, twinsquirrel, so true.

 

[twinsquirrel9]

Well some of these are not questions...but anyhow,

"Dude, why are you emo?"

"*snickering* What's the name of that band on your shirt?"

"Why don't you smile?"

"There's something wrong with you."

"I'm not making fun of you! Seriously!"

People like that get on my nerves Their such jerks! So much crap that happens when your SA, its sickening.

 

[Silvox Black]

People like that get on my nerves Their such jerks! So much crap that happens when your SA, its sickening.

Indeed, many times I wonder, "What in the hell would you even want me to say? I know that you're doing this just to mock me, so why should I even bother?" I truly despise such fools.

 

[gsmax5]

Come on , what are the most annoying things you have to deal with by having either social anxiety, general anxiety disorder, or OCD etc, these are some of my pet peeves.
I hate to get asked:

Why don't you smile? Why aren't you smiling? Why don't you talk? Why are you so quiet? etc. Why don't you just stop doing that (OCD)?

What are some of yours and why?? What do you do if you have no one to actually talk to about it cuz no one really knows anything about OCD and doesn't understand? Blogs and forums and therapist only? I also started writing it in a Journal. what do you guys all do that helps when no one can talk about it?

When they ask those questions in a friendly way, I always want to shock them by giving them a big "Fucк you!". Maybe if I did that, people would stop harassing me with those answerless questions.

BTW: I didn't use any bad words, that was a cyrillic "к"

 

[AGR]

For me its would you hit -insert name here-?
No I would not "hit" her,but some times I have to answer yes for my own good.

 

[Tempus35]

Indeed, many times I wonder, "What in the hell would you even want me to say? I know that you're doing this just to mock me, so why should I even bother?" I truly despise such fools.

This was the current issue with my roommate, and the reason I am moving out. He and someone else would do stuff to see how I would react and snicker about it.

 

[illuminationSP]

"How tall are you?"

"Can you do me a favor?" (Depends on the person)

"Why don't you want to go?" (Don't want to explain SA)