Lost the last of my friends today

tmill

tmill

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The last friend I had and the only person I thought understood me just gave up on me. Life really sucks right now and I really want a drink, but I have been sober for a year and one month now. Then I think about putting a cigarette out on my arm to deal with the pain. Then if I do that who knows what the Psycologist will do. You know society is screwed up not me!
 
Luke1993

Luke1993

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I think if you've been able to make friends before, you'll be able to do it again in future! Just hang in there I guess!
 
pljunkie

pljunkie

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I've had that happen to me so many times. But you do get over it and move on. Try not to get too depressed about it. 'Friends' leaving shows what kind of people they are.
 
omnighost

omnighost

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I know the feeling the last friend I had started being an ******* to me about a month ago. It sucks at first and it''s illogical especially coming from a friend but that's life for people like us. I know it's painful but if they are truly your friends then they wouldn't act that way towards you.
 
C

chained

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hey if u start drinking it will just make u worse and then u wont get better for sure..
so u can always make friends.. just focus on getting better now more than ever to show that friend.. I cant even imagine the pain, but u cant think logically now.. u
ll be gratefull later if u dont drink or self harm.. tell the doctor, you're feeling rly rly bad.. try to exersize, punch smthg, scream like crazy. I f u ever wanna talk feel free to pm me :)
 
boosh

boosh

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DarkPhoenix said:
You can make new friends on here. Screw what society says, online friends are friends as well.
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i also agree with this :). and i feel for you, i have lost nearly all my friends. i can't actually confide in anyone but try to think positive, i know it's hard. if you feel really down then turn to a therapist, that's what i did
 
ありがとう

ありがとう

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*hugs* everything will be okay, friends come and go, those who stay are the real ones. I remember losing all my friends, but even though it took awhile, I made some new ones and I realised what real friends are. Don't worry, things will get better. I'm always happy to be your friend ^^
 
tmill

tmill

Member
Thank you everyone for your kind reply's. I don't need toxic people in my life anyhow or anyone who won't understand what we go through. As severe as my SA may be I believe it can get better or easier with the help of my Psycologist and my meetup group. SPW has actually helped me understand what it is I go through from all the forums and stories you guy post. All is well and thank you again!
 
DeathMetal

DeathMetal

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I know how you feel man. I've been friendless for 13 years now. I'm glad you are feeling better though.
 
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