AtTheGates
Banned
Most people have a support system. (well idk about most but ALOT of people do) whether its simply just a group of friends to have a few beers with after a long week or a significant other to spend time with. something to look FORWARD to that makes all of life daily struggles seem WORTH the effort. I don't mean support like having someone to necessarily "lean on" I just mean people who understand you and actually CARE about your life...like if you get a new job then you're friends (i.e. support system) will be like "you got a new job! thats awesome! lets celebrate!" or if you get fired or have relationship problems and have someone to just give you a few positive words of encouragement....someone that CARES and offers basic support..nothing special, just basic support from a good friend(s)
but what about loners?...is their motivation effected by not having a support system?....if noone in your life cares how you're doing then where is the incentive to do WELL and strive for great things. you get a new job and have a long work week but have no friends to celebrate/spend the weekend with with so its like wtf....sometimes I wonder: is living for yourself ENOUGH?...or are there certain motivational aspects of having people to share your life with.
but what about loners?...is their motivation effected by not having a support system?....if noone in your life cares how you're doing then where is the incentive to do WELL and strive for great things. you get a new job and have a long work week but have no friends to celebrate/spend the weekend with with so its like wtf....sometimes I wonder: is living for yourself ENOUGH?...or are there certain motivational aspects of having people to share your life with.