Lonely, 26 and never had a girlfriend

EasySkanking

EasySkanking

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Quit being so open. Most people aren't, so this "openess" scares them. Realize that it is not you that they do not like or reject, it is your social phobia that they dislike/reject. Don't beat yourself over too much over not having a girlfriend because you simply can't yet (at this stage of your social anxiety). Work on your SA as much as you can and take joy from this, knowing that you're doing your best. Just my 2 cents :)
 
Sial Axetder

Sial Axetder

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EasySkanking said:
Quit being so open. Most people aren't, so this "openess" scares them. Realize that it is not you that they do not like or reject, it is your social phobia that they dislike/reject. Don't beat yourself over too much over not having a girlfriend because you simply can't yet (at this stage of your social anxiety). Work on your SA as much as you can and take joy from this, knowing that you're doing your best. Just my 2 cents :)
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Is worth more than just two cents, man.
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You're advice is at least worth two Canadian dollars.
 
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Patrick26

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EasySkanking said:
Quit being so open. Most people aren't, so this "openess" scares them. Realize that it is not you that they do not like or reject, it is your social phobia that they dislike/reject. Don't beat yourself over too much over not having a girlfriend because you simply can't yet (at this stage of your social anxiety). Work on your SA as much as you can and take joy from this, knowing that you're doing your best. Just my 2 cents :)
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Yep, i know my problem but fixing it is a whole other story. I'm chipping at it slowly.
 
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