theslowesthand
Banned
This seems to be my "style" to I regularly let "sh¿t" BUILD RIGHT UP, until i can't barely stand the pain any more ... and THEN i act. (by "sh¿t" which i mean as "deep emotional sh¿t", such as misery & depression, and which there's no logiacl explanation for - ie "mysterious sh¿t")
Probably what leads to this state, for me, is not allowing any "play" or "relaxation", neglecting my true needs, suffering significant emotional distress for several days (or weeks), "allowing" it to worsen, etc. So i "punish" myself, in various ways, but generally just not allowing my own emotional needs to be met. And then i become DEPRESSED!!! (which is basically just a "step up" in emotional pain)
Then what i do, in my natural course of events (am considering as i write this) i take seriously to the grog (binge session). Aftwerwards i usually have a sense of "emotional relief" (due to the "emotional release" instigated by the alcohol/music/escape)
This cycle of "personal abuse" i repeat on avaerage, several times each year, say every couple months or so (used to be every week, & at worst practically every day). So am a lot better than in past, but still this whole thing is very much a concern - my life still very much in the ***.
So although i aint an "alcoholic", would this be termed "alcoholism" i wonder? "Semi-alcoholism"? Whatever the case, i know there is a "problem" currently worldwide, of people esp youths drinking to excess (ie binging). Anyone know anything about this aspect of society?. Would the reasons that others binge be similar to my reasons??
Probably what leads to this state, for me, is not allowing any "play" or "relaxation", neglecting my true needs, suffering significant emotional distress for several days (or weeks), "allowing" it to worsen, etc. So i "punish" myself, in various ways, but generally just not allowing my own emotional needs to be met. And then i become DEPRESSED!!! (which is basically just a "step up" in emotional pain)
Then what i do, in my natural course of events (am considering as i write this) i take seriously to the grog (binge session). Aftwerwards i usually have a sense of "emotional relief" (due to the "emotional release" instigated by the alcohol/music/escape)
This cycle of "personal abuse" i repeat on avaerage, several times each year, say every couple months or so (used to be every week, & at worst practically every day). So am a lot better than in past, but still this whole thing is very much a concern - my life still very much in the ***.
So although i aint an "alcoholic", would this be termed "alcoholism" i wonder? "Semi-alcoholism"? Whatever the case, i know there is a "problem" currently worldwide, of people esp youths drinking to excess (ie binging). Anyone know anything about this aspect of society?. Would the reasons that others binge be similar to my reasons??
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