EnigmatiConduit
Well-known member
Hey Guys,
Not that I have been on here that long, so no one will really notice my absence, except for maybe how argumentative i have been ha.
I just wanted to say i hope you all find peace, but i wish you could try to not be so damn jaded, cynical and negative! Don't take this as an attack on any of you - I've just been there, it's a waste of time. Do you like how you feel right now, do you find pleasure and satisfaction from turning everything horribly negative that doesn't have to be? I'm sure you don't! My undoubtedly unwanted advice is to take a step toward changing your attitudes. Stop closing yourselves off to your lives and looking at each aspect of it with such adversity and negativity. This truly is such a damaging path to follow. I understand all of us do have our issues, as do I, but hiding away, almost indulging in these threads as an escape isn’t healthy – as I realise most of you will say you are not doing this. There is so much irony, with what is said VS how you all act and feel within your lives. Once you realise the detrimental patterns in your thoughts, and take active steps to change and improve this – your lives can and will become so much richer and more enjoyable.
Some of you have said you have been able to rewire yourselves and force yourselves to do things – for example, removing the want for sex. If you are that strong, you are certainly capable of changing your SA and any other undesirables! Tackle those things instead of focusing all your energy on altering aspects that would otherwise not be a greater issue.
Take note however that I am not saying everything I have posted within threads is correct, these comments were obviously just my opinions – but they were positive none the less and that is the important part.
For me this site has not been of any assistance, but rather a real push to improve myself as I do not want to involve myself within all the negative chatter.
I sincerely wish you all the best
Goodluck!
Not that I have been on here that long, so no one will really notice my absence, except for maybe how argumentative i have been ha.
I just wanted to say i hope you all find peace, but i wish you could try to not be so damn jaded, cynical and negative! Don't take this as an attack on any of you - I've just been there, it's a waste of time. Do you like how you feel right now, do you find pleasure and satisfaction from turning everything horribly negative that doesn't have to be? I'm sure you don't! My undoubtedly unwanted advice is to take a step toward changing your attitudes. Stop closing yourselves off to your lives and looking at each aspect of it with such adversity and negativity. This truly is such a damaging path to follow. I understand all of us do have our issues, as do I, but hiding away, almost indulging in these threads as an escape isn’t healthy – as I realise most of you will say you are not doing this. There is so much irony, with what is said VS how you all act and feel within your lives. Once you realise the detrimental patterns in your thoughts, and take active steps to change and improve this – your lives can and will become so much richer and more enjoyable.
Some of you have said you have been able to rewire yourselves and force yourselves to do things – for example, removing the want for sex. If you are that strong, you are certainly capable of changing your SA and any other undesirables! Tackle those things instead of focusing all your energy on altering aspects that would otherwise not be a greater issue.
Take note however that I am not saying everything I have posted within threads is correct, these comments were obviously just my opinions – but they were positive none the less and that is the important part.
For me this site has not been of any assistance, but rather a real push to improve myself as I do not want to involve myself within all the negative chatter.
I sincerely wish you all the best
Goodluck!
