jealousy

[LazyHermitCrab]

there's this guy i really love. as time goes on i guess its expected for this person to meet other people. i have a cousin shes really pretty were good friends but shes kinda a player with relationships. she really wanted to meet him so i said ok. but even before she met him she added him on facebook. she lives far away but drives down here a lot. this is driving me crazy i feel like shes trying to flirt with him its making me feel like crap....

 

[Rembrandt Broam]

there's this guy i really love. as time goes on i guess its expected for this person to meet other people. i have a cousin shes really pretty were good friends but shes kinda a player with relationships. she really wanted to meet him so i said ok. but even before she met him she added him on facebook. she lives far away but drives down here a lot. this is driving me crazy i feel like shes trying to flirt with him its making me feel like crap....

Your cousin should have respect for you and your relationship with this guy. Of course that's no guarantee that she will. But ultimately, you have to feel you can trust him. If you can't, it doesn't really matter what your cousin does or does not do, because if he's an untrustworthy partner then even if it's not your cousin, it will be someone else.

 

[mads]

Are you in a relationship with the guy/ dating him?

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

Your cousin should have respect for you and your relationship with this guy. Of course that's no guarantee that she will. But ultimately, you have to feel you can trust him. If you can't, it doesn't really matter what your cousin does or does not do, because if he's an untrustworthy partner then even if it's not your cousin, it will be someone else.

yea true =/

 

[LazyHermitCrab]

Are you in a relationship with the guy/ dating him?

we have been dating for 5 months

 

[mads]

we have been dating for 5 months

Then tell your cousin to mind her own business. When you are dating, she should keep her hands of.

 

[Hellhound]

Then tell your cousin to mind her own business. When you are dating, she should keep her hands of.

Agreed. You should talk to her and give her a warning first. If she doesn't listen, it's time to do something then.

And you should talk to your guy as well and tell him how you feel.