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And, consequently, male looks have never been more important.
Due to the mechanization of society, feminism, complete female sexual freedom (in particular the west), then factor Polygyny, and the ease by which a woman can go into the workforce, women no longer need men for shelter, security or wealth (although they still do look for it just to a lesser degree). This means that there is a greater emphasis on mens looks.
To give you an idea of whats exactly going on, go back to your high school days where only a small percentage of (hot-) guys where getting laid with numerous attractive and average looking women, but you were ignored, you got jack shit except for that dreaded occassion when obese lizzy smiled at you. The fat girl who weighed over 200lbs no other guys wanted. Thats exactly what is being repeated throughout college, university, into our 20's and beyond - a small, exclusive club of hot, tall, hunky, masculine-looking guys who HOG all the breeding and dating rights to attractive and average women. Ever heard of the 80/20 rule?
Couple this with the rise and predominance of social media sites, such as Facebook, Instagram, Tinder and dating sites in the last 10 years, which has not only greatly inflated the average female's ego by supplying them with a daily pipeline of validation (a healthy weight average looking woman gets at least 75 messages a day on a dating site) but also placed a huge emphasis on photogenics in potential partners, and it's no wonder why there is such an epidemic of lonely sexually frustrated males today. None of whom are particularly unattractive, none of whom are fat. Just not hot. Men are being held to an impossible physical standard that conflicts with nature.
Fortunately, things that conflict with nature and the majority of men tend not to last. I'll give society 30 more years of this madness being this way (at most) before we see a huge "reset".
Due to the mechanization of society, feminism, complete female sexual freedom (in particular the west), then factor Polygyny, and the ease by which a woman can go into the workforce, women no longer need men for shelter, security or wealth (although they still do look for it just to a lesser degree). This means that there is a greater emphasis on mens looks.
To give you an idea of whats exactly going on, go back to your high school days where only a small percentage of (hot-) guys where getting laid with numerous attractive and average looking women, but you were ignored, you got jack shit except for that dreaded occassion when obese lizzy smiled at you. The fat girl who weighed over 200lbs no other guys wanted. Thats exactly what is being repeated throughout college, university, into our 20's and beyond - a small, exclusive club of hot, tall, hunky, masculine-looking guys who HOG all the breeding and dating rights to attractive and average women. Ever heard of the 80/20 rule?
Couple this with the rise and predominance of social media sites, such as Facebook, Instagram, Tinder and dating sites in the last 10 years, which has not only greatly inflated the average female's ego by supplying them with a daily pipeline of validation (a healthy weight average looking woman gets at least 75 messages a day on a dating site) but also placed a huge emphasis on photogenics in potential partners, and it's no wonder why there is such an epidemic of lonely sexually frustrated males today. None of whom are particularly unattractive, none of whom are fat. Just not hot. Men are being held to an impossible physical standard that conflicts with nature.
Fortunately, things that conflict with nature and the majority of men tend not to last. I'll give society 30 more years of this madness being this way (at most) before we see a huge "reset".
No offense to anyone.