Is someone who hasn't had a relationship by 27 screwed romantically?

[Dreamscape]

Never been one, there are loads of girls who interested in my phsycial apperanace, hence once they know me and my akwardness they most likely lose interest in me, so I decided to be on my own. I always dream about some girl I see doing funny things together happy times but the fact is just me daydreaming.

 

[drganon]

Call me dumb, naieve, whatever ... but i REALLY DON'T GET it. WHY THE F*CK does anyone WANT to even be in one of these "relationship" thingees??? Peer pressure? Society pressure? Sex? So don't feel "alone"?
SOMEBODY PLEASE TELL US!!! (if you yourself know! lol)

Probably human nature, need for companionship, love and affection, as others have mentioned. Obviously sex plays a part too, but its not the only thing. For me personally, part of it is curiosity. I've never been remotely close to having a girlfriend, so part of me is just dying to know what it's like.

 

[Xervello]

Ha ha @ screwed romantically. Am I the only one who caught that? ::

 

[onehandclapping]

i've had my heart broken twice. 3 times if you count the time at college with a girl I fancied but never told her how I felt. I don't think its just social anxiety thats preventing me from a successful relationship, I think i'm just no good at relationships in general.

 

[Seabreeze]

No way!!!!!!!
I have SA and met my hubby who also has SA when he was 28!!
It really is not an age thing...it's all about meeting that special person who totally understands you and gets where you are coming from!!!!!

 

[cocorose]

Ok. That sounded wrong. I mean, I wanted more than a physical relationship and he didn't.

You sound like me.. except i keep letting it happen, because I'm stupid.. but the good thing is I think I finally realized that it only happens because i let it. If I feel worthless, no one else is going to care about me either.