Roads
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Hi, I'm a 21 year old male from the US. I've been depressed for basically all my life. I've always been alone, never really had any friends. I was the kid who sat alone at lunch.
Always felt like going to college would be a great experience and I'd meet lots of people and have lots of fun. But so far its been 2 and a half years of social isolation, depression and sadness.
My family hates me, they think I'm gay because I've never had a girlfriend(been rejected dozens of times, ive given up), and every time i see them they just try to get me to 'admit' that I'm gay. Its fucking retarded.
I just recently stopped accutane which ended the acne ive had since 12 years old. My face is pretty nasty, and i'm not afraid to admit that I'm a man that wears makeup. I have some minor gynecomastia(puffy nipples) which has also destroyed my confidence over the years. I also have palmer hyperhidrosis which doesnt help life at all.
I used to trust in God, used to believe people when they said "life gets better", but its just been a lie. I don't follow religion any more.
One thing that really bothers me is the girlfriend thing. There has never been a girl interested in me. I know a lot of it has to do with my height(im 5'7", which apparently is too short to date in the US).
I do go to therapy, and I've been on anti depressants, but none of it really helps honestly. Sometimes I feel okay, but my quality of life never improves, and the future is always dim. If anything, the years of therapy i've been in have shown me that I really DON'T belong in this world.
I've accepted the fact that I'll never have a girlfriend, and also accepted that my life won't get better. I've attempted suicide before in the past, and plan to do so again with a more permanent method. I'm not really sure why I'm posting here, maybe just searching for a reason to live i guess, maybe just searching for someone to make me believe my life is worth living.
-James
Always felt like going to college would be a great experience and I'd meet lots of people and have lots of fun. But so far its been 2 and a half years of social isolation, depression and sadness.
My family hates me, they think I'm gay because I've never had a girlfriend(been rejected dozens of times, ive given up), and every time i see them they just try to get me to 'admit' that I'm gay. Its fucking retarded.
I just recently stopped accutane which ended the acne ive had since 12 years old. My face is pretty nasty, and i'm not afraid to admit that I'm a man that wears makeup. I have some minor gynecomastia(puffy nipples) which has also destroyed my confidence over the years. I also have palmer hyperhidrosis which doesnt help life at all.
I used to trust in God, used to believe people when they said "life gets better", but its just been a lie. I don't follow religion any more.
One thing that really bothers me is the girlfriend thing. There has never been a girl interested in me. I know a lot of it has to do with my height(im 5'7", which apparently is too short to date in the US).
I do go to therapy, and I've been on anti depressants, but none of it really helps honestly. Sometimes I feel okay, but my quality of life never improves, and the future is always dim. If anything, the years of therapy i've been in have shown me that I really DON'T belong in this world.
I've accepted the fact that I'll never have a girlfriend, and also accepted that my life won't get better. I've attempted suicide before in the past, and plan to do so again with a more permanent method. I'm not really sure why I'm posting here, maybe just searching for a reason to live i guess, maybe just searching for someone to make me believe my life is worth living.
-James