allergic2kryptonit
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My question: is anybody truly just happy and enjoying life, or is everyone in the same boat - worried, confused, trying to keep distracted as not to fall into depression???
Kinetik said:I'm generally happy. It's important to look at the big things in life - health, wealth, family etc. It's really tempting to be ego-centric and think "god I'm depressed" but sometimes we need to step back and re-evaulate things from an objective (and perhaps healthy) viewpoint. I always feel really guilty when I'm having a bad period and I switch on the TV and see some malnourished African kid, or families that lost their homes during Katrina. It's then that I think what a self-absorbed asshole I'm being and that I have no right to be indulging in negative thoughts which is basically a luxury problem compared to what people in Rwanda are going through. And despite that, a depression can still seem just as bad as being in the midst of famine. It's funny how mental problems really fuck up your priorities.
Kinetik said:It's really tempting to be ego-centric and think "god I'm depressed"
maude_lynn said:Kinetik said:It's really tempting to be ego-centric and think "god I'm depressed"
I disagree, and find that a bit offensive, actually.
I don't think depression is necessarily an ego-centric thing at all. In fact, I think anyone with any degree of awareness of the world around them is bound to feel depressed.
Kinetik said:maude_lynn said:Kinetik said:It's really tempting to be ego-centric and think "god I'm depressed"
I disagree, and find that a bit offensive, actually.
I don't think depression is necessarily an ego-centric thing at all. In fact, I think anyone with any degree of awareness of the world around them is bound to feel depressed.
Well, I certainly didn't mean for that to be offensive. What I mean is that I think for the most part, a depression or anxiety is something we're afflicted with, but there's often a kind of self-pity percentage in there as well. That's why to me it seems to be at least partly self-indulgent, and that's the part I feel guilty about. I guess constantly being told "it's all in your head" makes you think it's all less of a valid concern than someone who has no food or water for example. Although I guess that's comparing apples to oranges.
i'd have to say i would be normally somewhere in the middle...content perhaps..with a constant undertone of worry :roll:allergic2kryptonit said:My question: is anybody truly just happy and enjoying life, or is everyone in the same boat - worried, confused, trying to keep distracted as not to fall into depression???