i'm fed up now

[Falling]

ugh i want to stop going to school... i hate seeing groups of friends, i made some few friends... but not a group, i'm fed up of hoping...

i dont need school... imw asting my time there, the lessons im taking at school i'm taking them private lessons too... so i dont need to go there. but if i'll leave school i now i will regret it... for not making friends that much, and for seeing others with groups.. and me not



sorry to bug you with my post... just im depressd right now... i'm losing hope and seems that my prayers cant be heard

 

[Chilling__Echo]

hey sweetie, don't let the other people get you down. just remember that groups of people stick out, you probably don't pay any mind to the loners you see walking around. you're not by yourself. school gets easier if you plan to go to college.

good luck, and remember that even all those people in the groups may not be happy.

 

[renegade]

mee too, except i have only 1 single friend in college :?

 

[abc1234]

gone

 

[Falling]

we make things in common!

well im planning to find a job till september, then i will continue my studies in another school.

 

[jamez]

Yea...school is pretty shit but I don't think you should just drop out. I think you need a lot of things going for you if you wanna quit mainly a plan, a job, ambition or whatever. Otherwise you just end up as a chump.

 

[Septor]

Trust me you don't want to drop out of school.I had drop out my last year of school and I regret it to this day.Just stick it out has hard as it is to do because in the long one it will be easer on you.Beside once you get to college it not as bad.

 

[Falling]

thanks everyone for your posts... sometimes i'm really down. actually to not feel down when you see group of friends is try to avoid to see them... though it hurts not enjoying these days... but i'll quit school this year and on september i'll go again... and in the mean time i will give my best to know people whom are going to the same school... but for this year is just ENOUGH.

 

[Moonie]

What grade are you in? You've made it this far, why quit now? I hated high school. I know what it is like to not be in a group. I would walk back and forth between two bathrooms everyday for 4 years because I didn't have anyone to sit with in the cafeteria. Then, during the last 10-15 minutes of lunch, students were allowed outside the cafeteria. I'd just sit on the step and do my homework, while everyone was chatting having a good old time. It was so hard, and I was so nervous, but I made 8it through every day. If you just quit, then you are letting them get the best of you.

 

[shipost]

Trust me you don't want to drop out of school.I had drop out my last year of school and I regret it to this day.Just stick it out has hard as it is to do because in the long one it will be easer on you.Beside once you get to college it not as bad.

gotta agree with that, when I started getting SA I quit school and I believe by quitting thats made me 10000000times worse.

 

[B]

Stay in school. You'll regret dropping out. You can read all the books in the world and it won't mean shit if you lack life experience.

 

[Septor]

In this day in age you can have all the knowledge in the world but if you don't have a piece of paper saying that you did this class or that class.A employer wont care.

 

[Waybuloo]

In this day in age you can have all the knowledge in the world but if you don't have a piece of paper saying that you did this class or that class.A employer wont care.

Exactly.

I'm in uni now and feeling very unmotivated and recent events have distracted me from my studies (not that i do them much normally) so i've fallen behind a lot. I have considered dropping out but its just not an option. Even if i dont' get a job in this career path i'll prob thank myself later for sticking through with it.

So the lessen is, finish school, even if ur thinking now, what the heck is the point.

 

[Falling]

i was in a specific school who was for who failed the gsces, i failed in maths.... so i had to repeat the year, now if i pass the exam, i'll go to collage.

i stopped going to school the last 2 months and i got terminated. also the course finished about 2 weeks ago so i lost nothing.

well from the experience of last year, it was better at school, talking to bit of people, being full jelause of everyone who pass me by, etcc... than to stay locked home the whole day.

now i finisehed school so i will start staying home the whole day! well, im doing my best to find a job... and when i'll find one i will start drama, singing and dance private lessons. so i'll meet more people. also i'm talking more with others when i hang out saturdays and some of them are in the college where im going next year. so that is a big step. i'm trying to make friends through friends so next year will rock!

but the thing that i'm concentrating on now is saturdays... i only go out when my friend does... when we hang out we go near a group and i'm inproving my socilisation with them alot... so by time i hope i'll start hanging out with them. if i will have "fixed" friends for staurday, then im relaxed. i can meet more people in a relaxing way... cuz i always fear they ask me what do i do saturday nights... and i would give a good impression if i tell them that i go out and not locked home!

so by now things are going good... little by little, step by step... everything goes great. experience makes perfect.

i passed from very painful experience last year for not integreting myself that much. and i got the lesson. i'm glad that i passed from what i passed... it made me realise that i ahve to wake up and start being indipendent and talking more.

so if there is someone passing from a similar experience and had bad experiences this year... start from the day, learn from your mistakes... ok you wont be super out going from the first time.... but experience will makes you perfect. and the worse thing you a do is staying at home the whole day!!! get out from home and face the problem!!! it is hard.... but someday you'll say "it was worthed!" :wink: